My hubby & I went to Tahiti (95). My husband had just jumped in the water, I was still on the beach ( still had my swimsuit cover on) a man was hiding in the bushes, making noises so I turned around and he was exposing himself & masturbating. I screamed, the security came over, the guy ran off. End of story.
Everyone knew this story, even the Co. Later, 2 1/2 years later, when my hubby is no longer an elder, TWO elders come by to find out the real 'TRUTH'. You could have run a semi in my mouth. They had concerns over the situation. Their concerns were, what exactly was I doing to make this poor innocent man do what he did. I lost it, my hubby wanted to know who & why were there concerns. They had to keep the congregation clean. They were concerned because we always WENT ON RISQUE vacations. I was a victim of some sicko, and they tried to make me come forward with some secret sin.
I was even told by one elders wife ( overweight, fat pig) that becuse of the way I looked maybe I shouldn't wear bathing suits AT ALL. She said I looked like something in ONE OF THOSE MAGAZINES. What the hell did she think she looked like in one. I couldn't belive it. She said, that she and a few other sisters had watched how not only men looked at me, but also women would to. Folks, I told her that I didn't spend my time seeing who was looking at me,I spent most of my time looking after my kids and theirs, since they were too busy watching me. I was really hurt, then pissed. I called my elders then and told them that I would wear anything I wanted and that I was offeded by them with all their fat hanging out of their suits & that they should be more careful while laying on their stomanches & elbows that all you see is their ugly, gross, overstretched sows teats dangling. OHHHHHHHHHHH...that stopped it right there. I told them I would make pictures and send them to the SOCIETY, CO and that I wanted a Meeting with the sisters involved and we were all to wear the swimsuits that we wore on that one day. They refused. They were offended that I was so upset.
Then, I was later TOLD (not asked) that they were aware that my husband was giving me illegal perscription drugs. I was very small & had a figure all my life. I thought they were just as sick as the Tahiti Pervert.
They did so much of this, that I can't remember them all.
Oh, Yeah, the new PO told me to get out of OUR post office box, because the elder body decided they wanted to keep the congr. mail coming there. I refused to co-operate again. Yes, I became the SISTER-FROM-HELL. Did I back down on any of this. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO...I did not. Did I eventually get DFD..........YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS.
Any and everything we had ever done was now in question, they wanted us gone and we are.
SUSCARRA