(((((home)))))
I truly understand how you feel. I recently had "the big talk" with my JW dad (former elder).
When you feel the time is right, let them have the truth, not in anger, but out of respect for yourself.
If they cannot respect what you have to say, and who you are as an adult then so be it. Yes they are your only parents but there comes a place in everyones life when you are no longer their "child". One cannot live in "lets just not talk about it" land forever.
Some are advising you to let it go. Maybe you should for the time being, but if it is going to eat at you, you have to deal with it. I felt better once I did. Im not saying that it helped my relationship with my dad, but now he knows where I stand and I respect myself for having the courage to tell him and I know that he was forced to respect me as well.
It sounds like you have begun the process already so I can say be calm, be rational, be educated with only the facts. You can be quite effective in discussion by only using the WT material. Good luck in round two.
Edited by - tdogg on 28 June 2002 20:23:54