Posts by Ampbel

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Need help. Daughter wants to leave org but does not know how.

by Indian Larry in

jw
friends

long question, but very important.. i can use some help.

my daughter wants out of the organization and i need some advise.. here is my background in a nutshell.

i am fully faded for 10+ years.

Ampbel

Was engaged to be married at 19 years old. Both families all supportive and gungho for us kids in love get married so we could be alone AT ALL together. In the final hour I backed out of getting married. I broke her heart. I felt so horrible. I couldnt just say I wanted to wait to get married and simply continue to drag her little brother everywhere as chaperone .

I got drunk. I smoked crack. I lost every thing and became homeless. Until I met a girl who had many major issues and she took a liking to me and her parents really liked me and her siblings befriended me. So I spent the next seven years wrapped up in that codependent drug centric life.

I just had ZERO self-esteem. All the while having a highly tuned sense of social grace. Everyone liked me. A well spoken basket case

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Need help. Daughter wants to leave org but does not know how.

by Indian Larry in

jw
friends

long question, but very important.. i can use some help.

my daughter wants out of the organization and i need some advise.. here is my background in a nutshell.

i am fully faded for 10+ years.

Ampbel

3 DUII. Always with I. 3 months of a breakup with a witness girl

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Need help. Daughter wants to leave org but does not know how.

by Indian Larry in

jw
friends

long question, but very important.. i can use some help.

my daughter wants out of the organization and i need some advise.. here is my background in a nutshell.

i am fully faded for 10+ years.

Ampbel

I think You have a brilliant strategy of slow fade. If a person feels obligated from integrity to confess , then states their dis-interest in "towing the line" being dDF'd is inevidable . my exits have been a scandal that I chose not to attend. That's where I have many times in my life...do what I call "self deating, copeing, NoN-SkiLLs"

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Need help. Daughter wants to leave org but does not know how.

by Indian Larry in

jw
friends

long question, but very important.. i can use some help.

my daughter wants out of the organization and i need some advise.. here is my background in a nutshell.

i am fully faded for 10+ years.

Ampbel

Hi Idian Larry,

I'd have to say your daughter is lucky to have you. I understand and am in the midst of that same depression. It is very difficult to stay positive with a head full of fatalism , a heart full of love, over developed need to be accepted . knowing that no one in your life understands you. It's brutal.