Westiebilly7
Maybe I am ignorant since when did having a meal with anyone inside or outside become the definition of brazen conduct .Check this definiton from thier website
Brazen conduct
From the Greek a·selʹgei·a, a phrase pertaining to acts that are serious violations of God’s laws and that reflect a brazen or boldly contemptuous attitude; a spirit that betrays disrespect or even contempt for authority, laws, and standards. The expression does not refer to wrong conduct of a minor nature.—Ga 5:19; 2Pe 2:7.
I am so sorry you have to go through this when you are dealing with illness of your wife.You should be given a lot more moral support and help not otherwise when you are going through a difficult time yourself. I hope she is much better now.
Peace