botr said: " a woman over 40 does not trigger me" that being the case, what would be the incentive, justification, rationale to marry into such arrangement ??? lets just say that
Many people are trigger happy or would like to be TRIGGER HAPPY!
we know of a couple married decades that just had a new daughter the husband an octogenarian, the wife half his age, the best pictures on the beach show the husband and his teenage son riding the same wave.
of course there are a lot of sour grapes. incest? no,
you might be looking at exeptional marriges in the best sense of the word.