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  Need advice

  by Drwho in

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  i'm a middle aged man.

  i dated a jw lady for 3 months ., we never had sex, just made out , half naked , well everything except underwear .

  she has been a jw for 40 years ., was married to a jw but he committed adultery 13 years ago so they divorced .

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  @nonjwspouse

  yes , I have to admit you are telling me 100% as it is , excuse my doubts earlier , but I guess I was / am desperate and frustrated , She is Dr Jeckel / Hyde in the female version 100% , she even admits this but cant explain it , well I dont want to tell her because , well everything I say is lies .

  Its so sad to see a person like this , she has never known the real world and the devotion to the WT is uncomprehendible for me , I belive it 100% but wow its unreal.

  She is suffering a lot , I met her the last two days , she is, I think being torn apart inside , there is a little part of her Human side showing , but that soon gets stamped on from her WT side which is much much powerful , but I can see its hurting her, she cries a lot , shes a nervous wreck , so I guess she will either break down or be comforted by her beliefs , I dont want her to go crazy which I think she is well on the way to .Strange for me was when we were walking and talkig she was being normal , all cuddly , then she stopped and said " I really love all my brothers and Sisters in the congregation " , that for me was a little scary .

  So , yes . Its time to say good bye , it will be better for both of us , Im actually more worried about myself than her , she has her belief and Bro& sisters to fall back onto , I could never explain this predicament to anyone : (

  @Zeb

  Thanks for the input , again you are 100% right and I will take your advice

  Thanks for your wishes of peace, it means a lot to me .

  Simon
  
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  Need advice

  by Drwho in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  i'm a middle aged man.

  i dated a jw lady for 3 months ., we never had sex, just made out , half naked , well everything except underwear .

  she has been a jw for 40 years ., was married to a jw but he committed adultery 13 years ago so they divorced .

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  Thanks nonjwspouse But again i am fully aware of what I am doing and the possible / likely consequences .

  I get the feeling that here , Im not saying you , but some here maybe be here just to disrupt the positveness ( is that a word?) for whatever reason .
  
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  89

  Need advice

  by Drwho in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  i'm a middle aged man.

  i dated a jw lady for 3 months ., we never had sex, just made out , half naked , well everything except underwear .

  she has been a jw for 40 years ., was married to a jw but he committed adultery 13 years ago so they divorced .

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  Drwho

  I know what the consequences are I was born yesterday
  
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  89

  Need advice

  by Drwho in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  i'm a middle aged man.

  i dated a jw lady for 3 months ., we never had sex, just made out , half naked , well everything except underwear .

  she has been a jw for 40 years ., was married to a jw but he committed adultery 13 years ago so they divorced .

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  Drwho

  Hi Wordling

  Well I guess that is what I am to her yes, and sometimes we just do normal stuff without me bringing the bad stuff up She would never have me in her life as a non beliver

  I am the big secret
  
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  89

  Need advice

  by Drwho in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  i'm a middle aged man.

  i dated a jw lady for 3 months ., we never had sex, just made out , half naked , well everything except underwear .

  she has been a jw for 40 years ., was married to a jw but he committed adultery 13 years ago so they divorced .

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  Drwho

  Thanks for the videos , strange how you did a backtrack in your second post after reading dubstepeed post ? But its ok thanks anyway

  funny thing is , Ive been barraging her with facts , and I really mean facts because I need to prove all that I tell her , and she that started 3 weeks ago , now I dont try to preach and I dont get stroppy and shout etc , im just calm and nice and after all this time she still comes back for more, so why doesn't she just run away fromme ? its would be easier , surely ? She says im confusing her and she will never leave her faith , then she once sad try again in a year ( thats when her kids will leave home ) I hurt her with my facts ( she says are lies ) and I even hold her bad motherly instincts against her as her 20y old daughter , jw of course , is suffering from depression and loneliness saying she would quite eays shun her poor daughter then take care of her if she left , its unreal cause she just comes back , even as I write this now she is whatsapping me, it weird : )
  
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  89

  Need advice

  by Drwho in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  i'm a middle aged man.

  i dated a jw lady for 3 months ., we never had sex, just made out , half naked , well everything except underwear .

  she has been a jw for 40 years ., was married to a jw but he committed adultery 13 years ago so they divorced .

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  Dubstepped

  Im not wasting my time , I mean , something must ve made you leave ? The last thing I need is a mega negative input like that
  
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  Fb pages

  by Drwho in

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  im not a jw and never was but had a bad encounter with one , ie my gf was one .

  anyway , i was wondering if fb pages are actually allowed , i thought the wt frowned upon them ?

  here is one i discus in regularly , maybe take a look and leave a comment on the tripe they write , it looks very well done and presented ,https://www.facebook.com/honor.jehovah/.

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  Hi Lisa Rose

  Thanks for that , I actually told her that surely nothing could harm her faith if she reads it but theres no way i can get her to read it with me .

  What made you leave, if you dont mind me asking ? You can pm me if you feel easier

  Thanks

  Simon
  
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  89

  Need advice

  by Drwho in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  i'm a middle aged man.

  i dated a jw lady for 3 months ., we never had sex, just made out , half naked , well everything except underwear .

  she has been a jw for 40 years ., was married to a jw but he committed adultery 13 years ago so they divorced .

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  Drwho

  How can I dispel what a Jw says about God uses the Watchtower ? Or that the fat governing body members are annoited ?
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  Fb pages

  by Drwho in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  im not a jw and never was but had a bad encounter with one , ie my gf was one .

  anyway , i was wondering if fb pages are actually allowed , i thought the wt frowned upon them ?

  here is one i discus in regularly , maybe take a look and leave a comment on the tripe they write , it looks very well done and presented ,https://www.facebook.com/honor.jehovah/.

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  Drwho

  How can I dispel what a Jw says about God uses the Watchtower ? Or that the fat governing body members are annoited ?
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  89

  Need advice

  by Drwho in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  i'm a middle aged man.

  i dated a jw lady for 3 months ., we never had sex, just made out , half naked , well everything except underwear .

  she has been a jw for 40 years ., was married to a jw but he committed adultery 13 years ago so they divorced .

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  Drwho

  My littel JW ex GF compares Apostates to the story of Adam and Eve , how can I dispel this argument , also she has just told me she is certain ( again ) the the end is near as per what JC told us

  Shes been a JW for over 40 years

  I want to get her to read Conflict of conscience which I bloody well just bought , how can I get her to read it ?