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  Your Opinion Pleeease

  by thankyou in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  9 years ago

  jw girl non-jw guy.

  tenuous boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.

  what is more likely to strengthen a relationship?.

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  DJS,

  "You lost me...."

  Sounds like you are lost in a very dark place.

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  Your Opinion Pleeease

  by thankyou in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  9 years ago

  jw girl non-jw guy.

  tenuous boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.

  what is more likely to strengthen a relationship?.

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  thankyou 9 years ago

  Miss Worldly,

  Sorry for your "roller coaster ride".

  Hope for the best!

  Thanks for the "heads up".

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  Your Opinion Pleeease

  by thankyou in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  9 years ago

  jw girl non-jw guy.

  tenuous boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.

  what is more likely to strengthen a relationship?.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 

  9 years ago
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  thankyou 9 years ago

  WireRider,

  "I still texted her a few days ago to say "Merry Christmas".

  Good for you WireRider!

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  Your Opinion Pleeease

  by thankyou in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  9 years ago

  jw girl non-jw guy.

  tenuous boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.

  what is more likely to strengthen a relationship?.

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  thankyou 9 years ago

  Thanks Oneyedjoe

  I understand what you are saying.

  I've been a selfish person my whole life. No more. It's not about me.

  At first I had heartache, but no longer.

  She is a Beautiful soul, but she is so tormented. So, I'm here to help her.

  I agree that She, alone, has to make the right decision. I'm hoping and praying that she does.

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  Your Opinion Pleeease

  by thankyou in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  9 years ago

  jw girl non-jw guy.

  tenuous boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.

  what is more likely to strengthen a relationship?.

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  OneEyedJoe,

  Thank you. I sincerely appreciate your opinion.

  You could very well be right and that's the way it will turn out in the end.

  "...you have no obligation to this girl".

  But that's the thing. In my soul I feel a spiritual obligation. I don't need her love or her warm body. I need to help her. I have unlimited girl friends.

  It can't be explained with just words here.

  We'll see. I'll post the result when the time comes.

  Thanks Man!

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  Your Opinion Pleeease

  by thankyou in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  9 years ago

  jw girl non-jw guy.

  tenuous boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.

  what is more likely to strengthen a relationship?.

  1. 
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  thankyou 9 years ago

  Everyone's opinion is more than appreciated !

  Slimboyfat,

  "You just need to work out if the person likes you enough either to leave or to break the rules for you."

  Yes sir, infinite patience, that's what I'm trying to do.

  I'm sure I look like a fool, but it's cool.

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  Your Opinion Pleeease

  by thankyou in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  9 years ago

  jw girl non-jw guy.

  tenuous boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.

  what is more likely to strengthen a relationship?.

  1. 
  2. 
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  9 years ago
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  thankyou 9 years ago

  Thanks OneEyedJoe

  I wish it was that easy

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  Your Opinion Pleeease

  by thankyou in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  9 years ago

  jw girl non-jw guy.

  tenuous boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.

  what is more likely to strengthen a relationship?.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 

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  JW girl Non-JW guy

  Tenuous boyfriend-girlfriend relationship

  What is more likely to strengthen a relationship?

  (1) Greet her for the "New Year's Holiday" or not?

  (2) Mention religion or never mention religion?

  Thank you kindly !

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  The Noble Fir

  by Oubliette in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  10 years ago

  the noble fir.

  the fir tree stands silently in the corner of our living room: proud, erect, strong.

  even unadorned, it is beautiful.

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  Oubliette,

  VERY NICE !

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  Is going into a church really THAT bad?

  by Zana in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  9 years ago

  family background: my wife ("liberal" jw), me (ubm), two children aged 5 and 2.

  (want more details?

  -> http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/topic/279456/raising-kids-jw-mother-agnostic-father).

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  thankyou 9 years ago

  Zana, OneEyedJoe,

  Zana,

  I apologize. I'm not trying to hijack your thread. Just want to praise OneEyedJoe's profound analysis of JW "brainwashing".

  "It just hits her emotionally as a big red flag of fear and terror and sadness... and she can't handle it and shuts down. It's designed to do this so that you can't get past it. It's designed to be a wall too tall to climb so that she won't put in the effort even if you try to work through it with her. That said, it might be something you can get past, but be patient and go slow because it's going to be difficult for her."

  OneEyedJoe

  Your words are absolutely brilliant !

  They aptly characterize the situation I've been facing in trying to get my Non-JW self together with a really special JW gal, where there is obvious mutual attraction countered by JW "brainwashing". Very sad.

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