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  My wife just told me to move out...

  by nolongerconfused in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  because of "religious" differences, she now wants me to move out and "separate"...i said what biblical grounds does she have for her request?.

  she couldnt respond...she said she'd rather be beaten up by me than have an "apostate" in the house.... this org definitely encourages conditional love.... i don't know what to do...by the way, we dont have children.

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  nolongerconfused

  thanks for the advise everyone...
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  My wife just told me to move out...

  by nolongerconfused in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  because of "religious" differences, she now wants me to move out and "separate"...i said what biblical grounds does she have for her request?.

  she couldnt respond...she said she'd rather be beaten up by me than have an "apostate" in the house.... this org definitely encourages conditional love.... i don't know what to do...by the way, we dont have children.

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  nolongerconfused

  I have left the ORG and have refused "help" from elders etc...so I have fully faded...

  I have, however, woken up my parents and brother and they have left the org as well...
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  My wife just told me to move out...

  by nolongerconfused in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  because of "religious" differences, she now wants me to move out and "separate"...i said what biblical grounds does she have for her request?.

  she couldnt respond...she said she'd rather be beaten up by me than have an "apostate" in the house.... this org definitely encourages conditional love.... i don't know what to do...by the way, we dont have children.

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  nolongerconfused

  we both contribute for expenses, although I make more than she does...money is not an issue...

  I really love my wife, and to be honest I think I may have pushed TTATT too much...

  Thanks for the advise on giving her space...I'm totally new at this whole TTATT which I firmly believe...she's a born in, and she is SO loyal to the ORG like you can't imagine...

  I tried to read the Bible with her last night, and she said she doesnt want me to read the Bible with her...all I was trying to do is read Jesus's teachings...

  anyway, I'm not giving up on my marriage...this is going to be a looong process
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  My wife just told me to move out...

  by nolongerconfused in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  because of "religious" differences, she now wants me to move out and "separate"...i said what biblical grounds does she have for her request?.

  she couldnt respond...she said she'd rather be beaten up by me than have an "apostate" in the house.... this org definitely encourages conditional love.... i don't know what to do...by the way, we dont have children.

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  nolongerconfused

  Because of "religious" differences, she now wants me to move out and "separate"...I said what biblical grounds does she have for her request?

  She couldnt respond...she said she'd rather be beaten up by me than have an "apostate" in the house...

  this Org definitely encourages conditional love...

  I don't know what to do...by the way, we dont have children
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  Why do Jw's have to pay for CO's expenses?

  by nolongerconfused in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  this is something that has always bothered me!.

  why do rank and file have to pay for co's do's expenses, car, health insurance, meals, etc, etc...?.

  didn't the apostle paul say that all christians have to be self sufficient and work?, not depending on anyone else and cause a burden?.

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  nolongerconfused

  my problem is not the giving out of the heart...it's the CONCEPT of saying you're doing full time service and "expecting" others to pay your expenses...all CO's, DO's, even these GB individuals should be able to support themselves...

  obviously they could care less about what the Bible says on self sufficiency
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  Why do Jw's have to pay for CO's expenses?

  by nolongerconfused in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  this is something that has always bothered me!.

  why do rank and file have to pay for co's do's expenses, car, health insurance, meals, etc, etc...?.

  didn't the apostle paul say that all christians have to be self sufficient and work?, not depending on anyone else and cause a burden?.

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  I didn't know that we paid for the CO?

  umm...how do they eat, put gas, pay for clothing, health insurance etc..?...it's all of the JW's donations lol

  Same thing for the GB
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  Why do Jw's have to pay for CO's expenses?

  by nolongerconfused in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  this is something that has always bothered me!.

  why do rank and file have to pay for co's do's expenses, car, health insurance, meals, etc, etc...?.

  didn't the apostle paul say that all christians have to be self sufficient and work?, not depending on anyone else and cause a burden?.

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  nolongerconfused

  also

  why are jw's paying for the GB's place to stay, meals, clothes, and a caregiver to wipe their asses?
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  Why do Jw's have to pay for CO's expenses?

  by nolongerconfused in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  this is something that has always bothered me!.

  why do rank and file have to pay for co's do's expenses, car, health insurance, meals, etc, etc...?.

  didn't the apostle paul say that all christians have to be self sufficient and work?, not depending on anyone else and cause a burden?.

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  nolongerconfused

  that's the only way they can keep their mind cult control
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  Why do Jw's have to pay for CO's expenses?

  by nolongerconfused in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  this is something that has always bothered me!.

  why do rank and file have to pay for co's do's expenses, car, health insurance, meals, etc, etc...?.

  didn't the apostle paul say that all christians have to be self sufficient and work?, not depending on anyone else and cause a burden?.

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  nolongerconfused

  this is something that has always bothered me!

  Why do rank and file have to pay for CO's DO's expenses, car, health insurance, meals, etc, etc...?

  Didn't the apostle Paul say that ALL Christians have to be self sufficient and work?, not depending on anyone else and cause a burden?

  UGH!
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  Why would anyone ask me to give a substitute talk

  by sosoconfused in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  so last night we had the theocratic school.

  i recently stepped aside from being an elder and i have been mentally gone for awhile now.. no one has talked to me or my wife and kids and i have been very brief with everyone.

  hwever, out of the blue lastnight during the theocratic school the school overseers assistant came to me during the bible reading and asked me if i could give a last minute substitute talk.... .

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  nolongerconfused

  you should change your screen name to somewhere similar to mine "no longer confused"....and get the heck out of there...although I'm sure you have very strong reasons to keep attending