If you live in the USA there is always pre-paid legal. They can help you with this kind of stuff, it is a membership but it's been a life saver for my husband and I so far and my parents.
Gojira_101
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Post 6: My brother turns on me now - Possible Legal advice
by sosoconfused inthis is a letter i received today with my brother turning on me based on something that was told to him by my crazy mother.
he works for me, yet has not spoken a word to me in months because he is a self-righteous little dick.. .
what i would like to know from someone who knows the law, is it possible i can sue him if he pressures people to not work with me because of my religious beliefs????
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A new lesson from Caleb's mom...
by cedars in...totally freak out and drop something if your child fails to say "please.".
http://www.jw.org/en/bible-teachings/family/children/become-jehovahs-friend/videos/please-thank-you/.
the woman is clearly a nervous wreck, and very easily offended.. if this is her reaction to caleb forgetting his manners, i shudder to think how she will cope if she ever finds him doing drugs.. .
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Gojira_101
What I would like to see, but I know it will never happen is the sandwich start talking to Caleb telling him to "take care" of his parents...if you know what I mean....The devil told me to kill my parents through the sandwich! Or better yet his friend Sparlock still talking to him through the sandwich....
And really what kid talks like that? My parents taught me manners, but I never asked like that! And what's with the hands clasping together begging like that. Oh Caleb, such a sweet boy...oh wait who else said that....um....oh right, Norman, such a good boy...the movie Psycho.
Serial killer in the making folks! Mark my words, he's going to do it!
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Who I really am, my story on YOUTUBE!
by Gojira_101 inthe death of a jw and the birth of me the apostate.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k2lwgowdpj8.
a huge thanks to my friend ray publisher (jwstruggle) for posting my video for me.
now that i am no longer held prisoner from the fear of watchtower, i can now help others!.
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Gojira_101
problemaddict:
I never was officially in the ASL Hall. I had gone a few times to some of their meetings, but since I'm an actual working ASL interpreter, I distanced myself from the ASL Hall because well I didn't want to deal with the ethical side of it since I work with the deaf everyday. I didn't want to call on someone on Saturday trying to preach to them and then Monday morning be interpreting for them at a medical appointment. I only ever went out in FS with the ASL hall once and it's funny because the one sister (she's at Bethel right now from what I hear working in the ASL dept) she was working as an interpreter too and I could see the conflict with the code of ethics we have to follow, and I just wasn't going to do that.
Shyla
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Who I really am, my story on YOUTUBE!
by Gojira_101 inthe death of a jw and the birth of me the apostate.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k2lwgowdpj8.
a huge thanks to my friend ray publisher (jwstruggle) for posting my video for me.
now that i am no longer held prisoner from the fear of watchtower, i can now help others!.
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Gojira_101
It was very hard for me to talk about not being able to have children on my video so I didn't go into detail...but 3 months after my husband and I got married he had a vasectomy. There were some complications, that shouldn't have happened and we know he could have it reversed, but he's not wanting to go through the pain on a "it might work." I don't want him to go through that pain again either on a small chance he could go back to "normal." Plus the percentage of a reversal working now is very low.
As far as I know, I can have children but I don't feel right using a donor because it won't be my husbands child. We would of had some beautiful kids.
Shyla
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Who I really am, my story on YOUTUBE!
by Gojira_101 inthe death of a jw and the birth of me the apostate.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k2lwgowdpj8.
a huge thanks to my friend ray publisher (jwstruggle) for posting my video for me.
now that i am no longer held prisoner from the fear of watchtower, i can now help others!.
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Gojira_101
Thank you Mr. Flipper! I'm sorry it made you cry! I know it doesn't look like it too much on the video but the whole time I was on the verge of tears also. It was very hard not to cry myself while telling my story. I hope one day it is your daughters who are telling their story. All we can do is hope and pray one day they can break free for the control.
I look forward to one day meeting you Flipper. My husband and I are hoping to save up for next years Apostatefest. I really want to meet many of you in person. If this year would have been one State closer we could have done it.
Shyla
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Who I really am, my story on YOUTUBE!
by Gojira_101 inthe death of a jw and the birth of me the apostate.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k2lwgowdpj8.
a huge thanks to my friend ray publisher (jwstruggle) for posting my video for me.
now that i am no longer held prisoner from the fear of watchtower, i can now help others!.
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Gojira_101
3 dogs 1husband. I pm'ed you back :)
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Who I really am, my story on YOUTUBE!
by Gojira_101 inthe death of a jw and the birth of me the apostate.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k2lwgowdpj8.
a huge thanks to my friend ray publisher (jwstruggle) for posting my video for me.
now that i am no longer held prisoner from the fear of watchtower, i can now help others!.
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Gojira_101
exwhyzee That was awesome, but you just need to rap it out and record it! There is a gentleman I watched his YouTube video and he did some music/rap about his experiences. Maybe get in touch with him and he can rap it for you.
That's pretty cool! Me like!
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My mother continues with these creepy letters
by sosoconfused inas i continue to post these letters just to let people see what they can expect through a fade, i hope they are not annoying anyone.. if so please let me know and i will no longer post them.
however i think these letters help you to see how cultish and crazy this religion causes people to become:.
evening <name removed>,.
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I'm so sorry you have to go through this. You know it really is the mind-control there people are under. I just talked to my friend Stubborn Disbeliever this morning because of a letter she just got from her Grandmother and it's almost exactly the same. Here is the link http://www.jehovahs-witness.net/social/family/255709/1/How-Do-I-Reply. I'm not trying to promote her topic on here, but if you read the letter she got from her grandmother, it's almost the same read. It's the mind-control. Like I told my friend, as long as they are going to all the meetings, personal studying....etc, they are going to stay under that mind-control and think they are right and you are wrong and going to die at Armageddon. I do honestly believe your mother loves you, but the problem comes in with the cognitive dissidence. We human's like harmoney and balance, your mother has the natural affection for you because you are her son, but that is causing her "inner balance" to be out of whack because she knows she has to be loyal to her God above all else.
Sometimes you just have to rip the band-aid off and deal with the pain. Do what is right for you and your family.
It really is simple, just shave the beard and be saved sosoconfused
Shyla
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Who I really am, my story on YOUTUBE!
by Gojira_101 inthe death of a jw and the birth of me the apostate.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k2lwgowdpj8.
a huge thanks to my friend ray publisher (jwstruggle) for posting my video for me.
now that i am no longer held prisoner from the fear of watchtower, i can now help others!.
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Gojira_101
Thank you everyone for the kind comments! I wish I had time to respond to each of your comments but I'm only home for a bit then have to go out again.
So basically finding the one lie with WT is what did for me. I left because I could NOT stomach taking in the lies anymore. Here soon my parents will start making videos and telling their story and I'll leave all the juicy details to them. But I will say as JW we went through hell with the JW's in the hall and with the elders in each of the congregations we were in. It wasn't for social reasons we left. The social aspect of the "wrong" we saw with the JW's we just chalked it up to imperfections of people. We never once thought that it went all the way to the top. We believed this was Jehovah's chosen organization, but then when the lies are uncovered, well then how can God support lies?
It feels very liberating to come out and say who I am and I'm actually shocked so many have commented and watched my video. I told my mom I would bee happy if 10 people watched it.
Thank you everyone! It's still scary but it's not being scared of WT, its being sacred because I'm opening myself for others to see many of my inner most feelings that I have only shared with my husband, parents and my best friend (Stubborn Disbeliever), it's just scary for me because those feelings are out in the open now for anyone to see. I certainly don't regret this because I want to help people escape from WT and to be free and if I have to bare soul, so be it. But it still is scary as hell!
Thank you againneveryone. I have read all your comments, I just can't take the time right now to reply to them all.
Shyla
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Who I really am, my story on YOUTUBE!
by Gojira_101 inthe death of a jw and the birth of me the apostate.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k2lwgowdpj8.
a huge thanks to my friend ray publisher (jwstruggle) for posting my video for me.
now that i am no longer held prisoner from the fear of watchtower, i can now help others!.
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Gojira_101
Sweet JJ! Thank you. I'm in the process of sharing it with my deaf friends.
Thank you!