Posts by spirituk

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This is so difficult

by dissonance_resolved in

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so i woke up a few months ago and had no idea what to expect.

at first i was outraged that i had been lied to all these years and so sad that i lost so many years of my life to a cult.

in the past couple of weeks though, i've actually been having second thoughts.

unless your husband change to your thoughts i think it would be better for now to stay put and dont try to tell them anything about your new beliefs .dont forget that they are brainwashed to choose god instead of you..its the bitter truth..i hope everything goes well for you my dear

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It got to be hard being a JW today!!!!

by jam in

i can understand why they think the end is near.. in the old days, one was proud to be a jw (well maybe.

not for you young ones) but for us that came in the 60,s.

and 70,s, we felt no shame in our game.

spirituk

thing is , jw's are leading double lifes without considering the harm they make to other people who are not jws.Many times they hide their religious beliefs and they only reveal it when they are in a bad situation according their interests in the JW community.They are hypocrites for closely contacts and hanging out with non jws,considering what their views are for wordly people .its so hypocritical to have a non jw for a best friend and inside you to believe he is going to die forever and that he is inferior to you..so brainf**ked..

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My thoughts and observations re: the Memorial

by 144001 in

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while sitting through my annual visit to a kingdom hall tonight, i had the following thoughts/observations:.

1. the speaker appealed to the kids: "how many here are 15 years of age or younger?

" he then went on to tell us how exciting it would be to "lie down" with lions that eat straw instead of flesh, and further discussed jw kids napping with leopards, bears, and cattle.

spirituk

is memorial a good occassion for single girls to meet a future husband?

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Dear Spirituk and the likeminded (read if you have time),

by okage in

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so i started going to church with her, and bible studies at her home.

in hindsight.... i found out that she made these moves a few days later when i showed up to her family's house for the study.

i stopped going to our church.

spirituk

Thank you friend for your time you sacrificed for me ..much appreciated .. i will reconsider and revaluate things..

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Thinking of having revenge on the jw girl

by spirituk in

hello again, following my story with this girl , and after she blocked me on fb and not answering my phone calls since december , i am now thinking of taking revenge.my feelings of pain are starting to become hate ,and pain always is accompanied by the feeling of revenge to satisfy this bad feeling.i just cant simply forget what shes done to me.

the reasons of my revenge :.

1.she played with my feelings when she knew from the start that she would leave me one day.

spirituk

blah blah.. Whatever..we saw how your actions helped the world ..your love and kindness stopped that cult or at least it reduced its actions -.- ..assholes.. at least it will be something different from what you ever did in your goddamn life.. just continue what you are doing and let people who can act to actually do it. Sleep in your shell peacefuly.. you are all so closed minded ..

I was provoked and hurt so much to reach at this point to think like that..YOU, have been criticizing and deriding me for 2 days from a blogspot..What does this says for your personality? Honestly you are worse than me and you are hypocrites ..at least i am truthful .. you make me sick

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Thinking of having revenge on the jw girl

by spirituk in

hello again, following my story with this girl , and after she blocked me on fb and not answering my phone calls since december , i am now thinking of taking revenge.my feelings of pain are starting to become hate ,and pain always is accompanied by the feeling of revenge to satisfy this bad feeling.i just cant simply forget what shes done to me.

the reasons of my revenge :.

1.she played with my feelings when she knew from the start that she would leave me one day.

spirituk

Honestly you none of you get it . You think that you are helping mankind by forgiving and be loving to jw's.The only thing that you are succeeding is to reinforce the feeling that they are in the right religion and they dont put any effort on changing that. You guys are so exhausted fighting your own fights and you have gone to the other hand of your mentality. Why cant you see that these people need something like shock to recover? I couldnt agree more to Fading Begins . If i dont act , she will harm other people too and destroy another life like the one of the previous guy who after 7 years still feels for her ,and god knows if she holds him there . You say i am mentally ill .. me .. who gave her everything .. who saw her crying.. i am just a man like all of you who got hurt by a brainwashed person..Just look in the internet how many situations are like mine..i ve searched it for a year now ,and honestly i feel very sad of watching very similar stories to mine..just think of how many persons would be saved all this time if one did something about it like me..They all followed your instructions , which simply say ''just let this religion ,see your life , and let jws destroy someone else now'' NO. this is wrong.. we humans are sleeping .. we cant see how things are..we just want to settle our life.Wake up people..Personally i wont let this HYpocrite girl to get near my relatives again.I mean she met my parents and nobody knows anything about her.If she is so religious then why does she associates with worldy people..I cant leave her live her double life ,destroying other people's lifes.Maybe its egoistical maybe its the feeling of unjustice.. BUT nobody can blame me for what i feel now.. She played mind games with me , i can ensure you on that..The typical hot and cold actions of jw.And now , to see her posting on FB of my cousin that she wants to hold my cousins baby and to know that she has an inferior view of that baby and to know that she believes that the baby will die forever?and if she doesnt care about this very IMPORTANT matter for her consciousness,then how can she face my cousin and my friend after what she done to me?(irrelevant that no one knows what happened.) i mean how arrogant, how hypocritical can she be? Ιnertial is so outdated for this cult.Everyone only speaks searches documents shows them etc.NO ONE has taken any actions against these people..Now that i have some weapons to fight it and embarass the so proud image (for them) of their cult, you are holding me back and you are so loving to people who hurt and possibly hold your loved ones.WE ARE NOT CHRIST ,STOP VIEWING YOURSELFS LIKE HIM EVEN IF HE BARELY EXISTED.we are humans who have to take actions .wake up you guys ,fight them , even one life is saved ,you have succeed .

Btw Fading Begins i sent you a pm and you didnt respond , i dont know if you got it .

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Thinking of having revenge on the jw girl

by spirituk in

hello again, following my story with this girl , and after she blocked me on fb and not answering my phone calls since december , i am now thinking of taking revenge.my feelings of pain are starting to become hate ,and pain always is accompanied by the feeling of revenge to satisfy this bad feeling.i just cant simply forget what shes done to me.

the reasons of my revenge :.

1.she played with my feelings when she knew from the start that she would leave me one day.

spirituk

only fading begins can understand me and my pain .and punkofnice , why should i even bother to post in this forum if i am telling lies? send me a p.m. and i will tell you my fb too.Has anyone of you experienced something like me? if not then your answer ,even respectful , cant really count for me .By the way , i have post before about this story so you can follow through and see the story . I was an orthodox. Now i dont believe in anything.I tried more than anything to satisfy her guilts..i failed.. but i didnt deserve this kind of behaviour..i only gave her love ,she treated me like a foreigner at the end :( the problem is that she is a close friend with my worldy cousin ,from which we kept it secret and we still do , and i also want to tell that to my cousin about what happened as she doesnt know anything.At the very start of this situation, my cousin warned her because she knew what happened before but she continued with me and i took it as a positive sign..My cousin also told me that this girl was a jw but i didnt knew anything about them i just replied ''so what'' ..so ignorant and poor me :( every jw that i told him all the story for days told me that i should give her in because she played with me :( its a bit of justice served ,its a bit of revenge ,its a bit of a way to release my pain..

It is impossible to suffer without making someone pay for it; every complaint already contains revenge . Friedrich Nietzsche

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Thinking of having revenge on the jw girl

by spirituk in

hello again, following my story with this girl , and after she blocked me on fb and not answering my phone calls since december , i am now thinking of taking revenge.my feelings of pain are starting to become hate ,and pain always is accompanied by the feeling of revenge to satisfy this bad feeling.i just cant simply forget what shes done to me.

the reasons of my revenge :.

1.she played with my feelings when she knew from the start that she would leave me one day.

spirituk

hello again, following my story with this girl , and after she blocked me on fb and not answering my phone calls since december , i am now thinking of taking revenge.My feelings of pain are starting to become hate ,and pain always is accompanied by the feeling of revenge to satisfy this bad feeling.I just cant simply forget what shes done to me. The reasons of my revenge :

1.she played with my feelings when she knew from the start that she would leave me one day. Not only for her religion and her guilts but also because she had similar experience with similar case like mine which ended in tears and she told me that the guy she had 7 years ago ,still loves her.So her options were to end it at once (even though she shouldnt even start it ) or to give in and fight for it .

2.Beside the fact that we met in my country and were together all the time for 5 days , when i visited her after 3 months while we were talking all the time throug fb and skype , she told me the final day that she had made a mistake for me ,blaming the communication through pc that misled her to wrong conclusions about me . How can this stand when she made her conclusions at the first time we met?

3.Her brother insulted me very badly and on the first time he met me when i went ther.Despite the fact that i was in a foreign country and city an people on my own for the first time , he started questioning me and taunting me , saying among others that i was stupid coming to another country for just a girl.Even if i cast out the hospitality , i cant forgive him for being 34 years old and acting like that ,and she , she just told him not to talk over there , but to wait to go outside the theatre.

4.While we were together in the hotel she told me that she had a similar story to mine before 7 years and they were very attached to each other but again she had to end it from heavy guilts and told me that she didnt feel anything for him now but she didnt know how she would feel is she sees him again (so diplomatic) and that the same day she told me to just stay friends , that person texted her . So i can only think she had feelings for that guy through the years and BESIDE the fact that it was very difficult to try with me for something because of her religion ,she also had feelings for another guy, so why did she even bother for me? so cruel to mess with my feelings for nothing.

5.What did she expect? to end this as friends and be loving to each other and go on? she told me she wanted me in her life as a friend .But how can i erase all this efort i put to make it work? all the time i sacrafice? all the feelings i built from efort and pain..These feelings are rare and they dont just fade neither logic can hold them.I started to feel how unfair she was with me and how cruel she was on the end and hypocritical..

I just cant stand her , i dont wanna see her again not even when she comes for vacation to my cousin. I want her to feel pain as i did , alone without anyone to back me up.I cant stand feeling so much pain and her just moving on with her life like nothing happened.I dont want to let it go like this .At least she wont do it again to other men likeshe did to me and to the other guy.

I need some options of what should i do. How can i revenge her? i was thinking sending by fax our conversations and photos which she begged me not to show them to anyone . What other punishments do you recommend?Also ,what consequences will that have on her and on me?

Thanks

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A JW relationship talked about on the radio

by whathehadas in

i saw this today on youtube.

it's audio from a popular morning, new york radio show called the breakfast club.

one of the host, charlamagne tha god was raised a jw.

spirituk

''a house divided cannot work '' , well if you take the stick out of your a*s and sit and think that you are losing the man /woman of your life for a goddamn book written by a banch of shepherds lived in desert before 2000 years then that could work.. f*ck this world where people are divided by beliefs , i mean f**k!

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i hve conculded that All religions all mind controlling and the same..thy all hve 'issues' non is perfect...just pick one hope u dnt get to entangled in its webs..

by Chichi89 in

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i think thy are all the same..th base logistics of how thy run thier affairs n worship is the same... thy ar all man made..all mind controlling..if religion is a big part of your life jus pick one and deal with its crap.coz its gonna be there.!.

.its jus not th jw,th catholics ,the muslims thy jews ,th mushroomming ministries th list in endles... am just sayin.

spirituk

we should stop criticize reriligions ,we already know that are bad for people . we have to take actions against them . words only dont seem to help. we have to consider what actions we can take in order to free humanity of this heavy harmful poisonous burden . the solution exits we just havent thinked of it yet . can you share your thoughts on any possible actions to take against religion and cults?