Mr. Flipper,
This is actually my brothers problem, not mine. He recently married, about 6 months ago and just recently realized he made a terrible mistake. Its not that she is a bad woman, but she has completed melded into a zombie. Her whole entire life revolves around him, she has no opionins of her own, her hobbies are whatever hobbies his are, she basically just lives to make him happy. And its making him miserable. He no longer has an identity, she wants to be with him 24/7, thinks everything they do should be done together.
Okay. The problem. He told her he wants to split up. She just pretends he didn't say it. He says I want to break up and she says NO. We aren't breaking up. She then gets up makes dinner, cleans the house, polishs his shoes etc. (you get the picture).
How can he get out of this relationship without literally picking her up and tossing her out of the house? She is in total and complete denial. He doesn't want to act like an asshole.
Thanks!