When my mom died the elder who gave the talk was very good to her through out her last few years. He gave the talk and kept trying to personalize it by saying she would have wanted you to study the Bible and become one of Jehovah’s Witnesses. She would want you come to meetings, etc...it was a sales meeting.
When my brother had his service the elder told stories about my brother and actually personalized him and after hearing how wonderful my brother was I began to question if this was really my brother they were talking about. Lol... I hope I really will not be going to another service there. It’s really a weird experience especially when you’ve been gone for a while.