LosingIt: I don't know what to say.
My ex-wife did many of the same things. When we were together, she wouldn't do anything that would bring us closer together: hiking, dancing, visiting family, going to a counselor, spending time with non-JW family.
Then, as soon as I left her she immediately started doing ALL of these things. Go figure. They are way fucked up people.
The only difference between my ex and yours is she is still in the cult.
Did I mention how fucked up she is?
You have to live your own life and live it well. Not for revenge, but for yourself.
Congrats on your Master's degree. I just got mine this last summer! I'm making more money, but more importantly: I'm enjoying my life and my work now more than ever!
Let's review: It's a cult!