I can't believe it but my new boss just called me yesterday and said that they can no longer offer me the position in Chicago!!!! WTF!
But he did say that the SAME position is open in the area I live now.
The first thing I thought about was, "So what the hell is going to happen to my plan of fading?!"
My wife was very much set on moving as well. But maybe keeping the same apt ( we live in an efficiency apt) will be stable for her. And her MS is stable, but maybe this staying here will keep her grounded? I don't know for sure. I never told any of the elders about my moving. I was planning on just keeping it a secret, or until my "in" wife told everyone. As far as I know she hasn't yet. So maybe it's for the better.
Anyway, maybe work will have overtime and I'll be "forced to miss meetings" :)
Love you all in this community!