I was df'd back in '90 and went to a convention a few years later. While chatting to a friend another one of our old 'gang' walked in through the football stadium gates. My 'friend' made a comment to the effect of 'I don't know why he bothers coming, noone will talk to him because he's disfellowshipped.' You should have seen her face when i told her i was still disfellowshipped. It's the only time I have ever been looked at like I was a piece of shit.
My father is an elder and started talking to me again a couple of years ago, occasionally he would bible bash and I made it clear I wasn't interested. He'd still call me whenever he needed help with his PC or something. I'm getting married in Spetember and he's just decided he won't be coming as his 'conscience' is troubled to still be talking to me.