When I first came to this site; other ex-JW sites as well, I appreciated much of the advice presented. Or, so it would seem.
But I had to wonder with regards to the original poster of this thread, if they indeed: FADED
Has expatbrit faded? Did he/she really leave the Jehovah's Witnesses completely?
Have we met-up with a scenario comparible to the story of the 'mice that were instructed by another mouse to go put the bell around the cat's neck'.
Does anyone follow me here?
There are folks who can give excellent advice. Some of which, may actually work. But can they actually DO IT, themselves?
Has the author left the Jehovah's Witnesses? Has he/she successfully faded?
IF he/she has indeed faded...that's great.
Faded is a euphimism for 'not-out-yet' in my opinion.
So, what advice or information are we following? Someone who has actually successfully faded? Or someone who wishes he/she truly had?
I have not yet met anyone in-person, who has successfully faded.
The advice originally posted in this thread is good, but I still wonder until this day if the author has 'actually' made the break
I've met many folks who've left the Jehovah's Witnesses, none of whom were successful at fading. The more they tried to fade, the more suspect their activities/inactivities became.
I repeat: Is this merely: the leader of the mouse clan asking another mouse to place the bell around the cat's neck?
I hope not. But this one has had me scratching my head for years....
If you have left, not faded, I do indeed, take my hat off to you. You are no longer 'lukewarm'.