Personally the only thing I expect when I have sex....is good sex. It's not a commodity to me to be bought or sold.
Communist.
B.
seems to me that in the jw religion, virginity is considered to be an essential requirement for the born-into-its, right up until the time that they get married.
seems to me also, that the jw religion, while condemning fornication generally, sets greater store on females remaining intacto, as opposed to males, what with references to "old towels that any man can wipe his hands on" and the like.
very patriarchal.
Personally the only thing I expect when I have sex....is good sex. It's not a commodity to me to be bought or sold.
Communist.
B.
be honest.
if you were raised a jw didn't you fear that you would die during the great tribulation and never have sex for all eternity (since ressurrected people don't have sex, according to the wt)?
whenever i think of an early demise -- nuclear war, for instance -- my thoughts almost automatically turn to, "i want to have sex.
(I'm kidding, btw)
be honest.
if you were raised a jw didn't you fear that you would die during the great tribulation and never have sex for all eternity (since ressurrected people don't have sex, according to the wt)?
whenever i think of an early demise -- nuclear war, for instance -- my thoughts almost automatically turn to, "i want to have sex.
sinamongirl,
OMG, logan, that is too funnyI thought I was the only one who felt that way
sinamon
Naw, you're far from the only one sinamon. But, you are the only person in the world who masturbates. B.
seems to me that in the jw religion, virginity is considered to be an essential requirement for the born-into-its, right up until the time that they get married.
seems to me also, that the jw religion, while condemning fornication generally, sets greater store on females remaining intacto, as opposed to males, what with references to "old towels that any man can wipe his hands on" and the like.
very patriarchal.
Chinese food and nerves Hillary Step.
Lord only knows what she was thinking...
B.
seems to me that in the jw religion, virginity is considered to be an essential requirement for the born-into-its, right up until the time that they get married.
seems to me also, that the jw religion, while condemning fornication generally, sets greater store on females remaining intacto, as opposed to males, what with references to "old towels that any man can wipe his hands on" and the like.
very patriarchal.
I remember a couple women telling me they prefer to have sex with men who are not virgins. My goodness, the first time I had sex with my (now, ex) girlfriend she was concerned that I had only had sex less than a dozen times with other women! Afterword she said,
"Woah, that was way better than I thought it would be!"
Not really sure how to take that, I guess.
Bradley
I make it special for all my women.
be honest.
if you were raised a jw didn't you fear that you would die during the great tribulation and never have sex for all eternity (since ressurrected people don't have sex, according to the wt)?
whenever i think of an early demise -- nuclear war, for instance -- my thoughts almost automatically turn to, "i want to have sex.
Be honest. If you were raised a JW didn't you fear that you would die during the Great Tribulation and never have sex for all eternity (since ressurrected people don't have sex, according to the WT)?
Whenever I think of an early demise -- nuclear war, for instance -- my thoughts almost automatically turn to, "I want to have sex." Nature must have selected that thought process....Death <> Sex.
Survival of the Fittest, baby.
B.
seems to me that in the jw religion, virginity is considered to be an essential requirement for the born-into-its, right up until the time that they get married.
seems to me also, that the jw religion, while condemning fornication generally, sets greater store on females remaining intacto, as opposed to males, what with references to "old towels that any man can wipe his hands on" and the like.
very patriarchal.
I'm also very suspicious of studies that show that sex before marriage is bad for the marriage. To me, it's not so much the fact that you've had sex before you're married, but the fact that you have a certain view of sex and have had sex before marriage.
B.
seems to me that in the jw religion, virginity is considered to be an essential requirement for the born-into-its, right up until the time that they get married.
seems to me also, that the jw religion, while condemning fornication generally, sets greater store on females remaining intacto, as opposed to males, what with references to "old towels that any man can wipe his hands on" and the like.
very patriarchal.
I think people would go a long way if they gave up the "First Time I Have Sex It Should Be Special" song-and-dance. More likely than not your first sexual experience -- married or otherwise -- will be awkward, short, not very pleasing and, for the woman, possibly painful. To me your first experience -- hell, your first five to ten copulations -- should be viewed as training for a future life of sexual gratification.
Good sex has to be learned. How oh how is it supposed to be special the first time?
Bradley.....who actually vomited after he had sex the first time. (don't ask!)
the watchtower can't establish clear evidence that birthdays , as a natural event, are part of 'false' religion.. so, they try to associate them with negative events in the bible and condemn them thereby.. the trouble with this reasoning is that it is foolish to condemn any practise arbitrarily simply because someone can.
find something negative correlated with it in bible events.
( how about chronology and false prophecy?).
I think the "birthdays are bad" doctrine is a vestige from the Rutherford era. Joe came down on just about EVERYTHING and seemed obsessed to find evil everywhere. He wanted to seperate JWs from whatever normalcy they used to enjoy. "Being seperate from the world..."
Because Joe & Co. came down so hard on B-days, and because JW youth grew accustomed to not celebrating them, the GB sees no reason to change their stance. I don't think it has anything to do with keeping people unawares of how many years are going by without Armageddon. They do celebrate anniversaries (wedding or otherwise).
B.
Just picture it!
The Xena Bobblehead Doll
The Farkel Bobblehead Doll
The Little Toe Bobblehead Doll
and, of course...
The Simon Bobblehead Doll
Bradley....of the "active imagination" class