Early on when I joined this forum about 13 years ago, someone told me not to give too much information all at once--sometimes we get so trusting and want to pour out our heart and tend to give too much information that may work to our disadvantage.
There is a need in cyberworld to be very selective in what we share. I like the title you gave your thread "New circle of friends takes time". It truly does take time to create history with another.
There are a number of options:
tell a moderator OR ignore the PM
Happy New Year KateWild. I enjoy your presence in this forum. I hope that 2014 brings loads of happiness.