I was df'd for marrying my ex wife......i would take her to meetings as my sisters study, and everyone loved her. My ex wife was not a jw , or had plans on being one, but we loved eachother and got married one day.
Once we got married, i got df'd.....now the answer to your question.;; everyone loved this woman before we got married
If they were to announce the reason for me getting df'd, how would people take that? A nice guy getting married to a nice girl.....That announcement mighta backfired on making me look bad. But keeping it secret, makes me really look bad.