Posts by truthseeker

going back to the late 1990s a few of the names i recall...blacksheep, gypsywildcactus (i know she's ok as we're friends on facebook still), onacruise, minimus, veniceit, flower, prisca, bendrr, refinersfire, kent, englishman, shit...dare i say it evilforce lol, snittlesnacks (what a twat), scully, mouthy, talesin from nova scotia, xenawarrior.

littletom (from glasgow in scotland), outlaw, goaty, bisous, uncle brucey (australian character who loved his wildkife photography) - struggling now to remember more names.i know there are many more.

truthseeker

I've been reading this forum since 2000 and plucked up the courage to join in 2003.

Used to be a member of Witnesses.net and Hour Glass 2 outpost.

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When you missed several consecutive meetings or took a vacation did you feel "weird" when you returned?

by Tenacious in

every now and again i would miss meetings due to health, surgeries, work etc.. when i would miss a meeting here and there i didn't particularly feel this "weirdness.".

it wasn't until i would miss 3 or more consecutive meetings that i felt this weirdness upon entering the kh.. i can't really explain it but it feels like i was entering the kh for the first time.

it's not like when you take a 2 week vacation and come back to work.

truthseeker

Yes. I was inactive for three months. And when I went back to the Sunday meeting an elder said to me "we've missed you" which was cobblers because he never even reached out to me to find out why I wasn't there.

Truthseeker

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Finding lost relatives or ancestry interest after leaving??

by Bad_Wolf in

while i was in the borg, the only relatives i knew and we mainly kept in contact with were jw's.

on one side of my family, back to my grandparents, they cut ties with all the non jw family when they converted.

i've found some through facebook, but only those i knew about.

truthseeker

I started in 2006 to find out what happened to my grandfather and then I ended up doing my tree on both sides of the family.

I met a couple of cousins online which led up to meeting them in person.

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Help: project to gather statistics on JW congregation finances.

by Anders Andersen in

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many countries demand that charities publish a yearly summary of their finances.. where i live (netherlands), charities must publish these statements themselves, and jw do this at jw-anbi.nl.

(i'm quite certain almost no jw knows about that site btw.).

anyway i've been working on automatically harvesting data from all the congregation finance statements to gain more insight in how the borg is doing over time.. now it occured to me that i could do this analysis for more countries and get an even bigger picture.

truthseeker

Anders check your pm

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Enjoyed the Memorial

by ScottyRex in

probably not a popular opinion on here....and haven't been actively attending meetings since 1988....(i know i know a submarine attender) however thoroughly enjoyed attending this evening...was good to see lots of people i remember whilst growing up in this faith, they were genuine and the whole atmosphere was one of love.

sure if i suddenly wanted to become active again and didn't change my lifestyle they would drop me like a bomb.....however i haven't and won't and they didn't and don't.

this works for me.. i cannot demonize the witnesses on what i have seen tonight.

truthseeker

My last Memorial was in 2009. They didn't even attempt to love bomb me.

In any case, none of it is real. It's an illusion based on getting you to conform.