Miss.Fit

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  Old NYT Article About Watchtower Policy On Child Abuse

  by Bangalore in

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  Bttt. .. interesting.
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  Relationship Issues: Boundaries, Freedom of Choice and Codependency

  by 00DAD in

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  2. beliefs

  relationship issues: boundaries, freedom of choice and codependency .

  i just read a very interesting thought in the book, "boundaries" by cloud & townsend.

  the basic problem in human relationship is that of freedom.

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  Great stuff. Gave me a lot to think about. Never thought about it in terms of boundries. No boundries- no freedom.

  Recalculating.....

  Missy
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  A Trip To See Someone Special

  by Thoughtless in

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  2. experiences

  >birthday.

  > go to see adoptive mother in which i haven't seen in ten years due to adoption and her own personal issues.

  > enters nursing home.

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  Thoughtless : hope you are doing ok.

  My mom had a nervous breakdown when I was little. She was a JW. I ended in up being raised by some JWs.

  My mom was DF twice. She came back in and now she is pioneering. She s in her 80s.

  My mom never lost faith- even after she found out that the JWs she entrusted her kids to were abusive and c hild molesters.

  I didn't go back with my mom until I was 13. It was hard reajusting. We still talk. I dont call her as much any more.

  Maybe your mom thinks you will have something in common since she is studying.

  I m thinking about you. If you ever want to compare foster notes. Pm me.

  Missy
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  What's The STRANGEST Thing You've Seen At A Kingdom Hall?

  by minimus in

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  2. friends

  i saw a fight break out on the platform between an elder and a unbelieving husband who accused the elder of f---ing his wife.

  he then threw the lectern on the floor and pushed the elder.

  it was cool.......

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  @Freethinking: your hall had some "interesting" people in it. Sounds like never a dull moment.

  @lisarose: maybe they will think twice before forcing a sick kid to go.

  Missy
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  ~raising hair~

  by freeflyingfaerie in

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  to say goodbye to the past i cut, i raised my hair.

  the full moon was approaching.

  i wanted to free myself of the pain.

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  Cutting away the memories.

  Did It help? It sounds like your memories were painful. Did your memories go into the bin along with your hair?

  To new beginnings. Missy
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  What's The STRANGEST Thing You've Seen At A Kingdom Hall?

  by minimus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i saw a fight break out on the platform between an elder and a unbelieving husband who accused the elder of f---ing his wife.

  he then threw the lectern on the floor and pushed the elder.

  it was cool.......

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  Please more stories. I need the laugh!

  Missy
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  Sticky situations

  by Sammy Jenkis in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  i was remembering today this situation that i let get out of hand because i was too damaged to let my co-workers and my boss know i was a jw when i was still inside.

  it was hard to explain to people something so foreign and out of this world as being a witness and never before had the difficulty been as hard as when one of our co-workers birthdays came around.. i dreaded the moment because i'd played pretty cool and dodged any questions that might reveal my religious inclinations.. but:.

  my boss came over to my desk and gave me this card to sign, she asked if i'd like to sign it.

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  Signing birthday cards: I never had a problem... my hand writing is so bad no one would be be able to read my name.

  Missy
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  Sticky situations

  by Sammy Jenkis in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  i was remembering today this situation that i let get out of hand because i was too damaged to let my co-workers and my boss know i was a jw when i was still inside.

  it was hard to explain to people something so foreign and out of this world as being a witness and never before had the difficulty been as hard as when one of our co-workers birthdays came around.. i dreaded the moment because i'd played pretty cool and dodged any questions that might reveal my religious inclinations.. but:.

  my boss came over to my desk and gave me this card to sign, she asked if i'd like to sign it.

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  SammyJ: the fear of of mom is worse than the fear of god. Lol

  Yeah I would take a lighting bolt over facing my mom any day!!

  Under the bed sure beat the window ledge.

  Missy
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  Sticky situations

  by Sammy Jenkis in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  i was remembering today this situation that i let get out of hand because i was too damaged to let my co-workers and my boss know i was a jw when i was still inside.

  it was hard to explain to people something so foreign and out of this world as being a witness and never before had the difficulty been as hard as when one of our co-workers birthdays came around.. i dreaded the moment because i'd played pretty cool and dodged any questions that might reveal my religious inclinations.. but:.

  my boss came over to my desk and gave me this card to sign, she asked if i'd like to sign it.

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  Instead they invited us over to play cards and watch tv. We thought the older married cousins were going to stay.

  I explained about ES freaking out and how we didn't want to get him in trouble. My mom bought it...most of it was true.

  She looks at us and says: I have to know: where on earth did you hide? The dad said he looked every where. When I told her she almost died laughing.

  Score 1 for goody, goody girl!!

  Missy
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  Sticky situations

  by Sammy Jenkis in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  i was remembering today this situation that i let get out of hand because i was too damaged to let my co-workers and my boss know i was a jw when i was still inside.

  it was hard to explain to people something so foreign and out of this world as being a witness and never before had the difficulty been as hard as when one of our co-workers birthdays came around.. i dreaded the moment because i'd played pretty cool and dodged any questions that might reveal my religious inclinations.. but:.

  my boss came over to my desk and gave me this card to sign, she asked if i'd like to sign it.

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  We are desperatly trying to put on an innocent who me? Face.

  We look up to see our JW roomie glaring at us. Curses ! mom had the pool staked out!! She had spies looking for us. Okay all us not lost. Deny deny deny.

  WhenWe try the we've been skating and just got back story. Roomie didn't buy it. She marches us into the room to wait for mom.S o we decide information is powet. We need to know how much mom knows.

  We weedle the info out of roomie:

  It seems ES dad's sisters cousin had a room next to us. She also happened to know roomie. when ES dad was looking for him he called around and talked to cousin. Cousin remembers seeing us with the boys. She asks roomie..roomie asks mom .. mom says oh they went skating. Next door cousin says nobody went skating.Elder dad thinks his son had girls in his room but room mate wont let him in. Could they be your girls? So mom rushes to the hotel.

  Ok. I can work with this. See I have a super power.... I am. Goody Goody girl. I am responsible and have a trust worthy face.

  I can spin the truth with a straight face. I am the disignated talker.

  So mom gets back. I am ready. I take a deep breath and "confess".

  My story: those sneaky boys told us we were going skating but changed their minds. Instead they