Posts by bebu

i am talking about 'regular stalkers' who stalk you for the obsessive psychological reason of needing to be near you physically.. ever been followed?.

ever had the feeling someone was looking through your windows?.

While living in Japan, a Japanese acquaintance (40 yr old) began to follow me in his car as I rode my bike home each night, a 3-mile trip. I was 22. He was having marital problems and was also EXTREMELY wealthy. I had spoken nicely to him, nothing forward, and he read a LOT more into it than he should have.

Until I figured out that it was HIM that was stalking me, I was nervous a bit. You know--riding home in the dark with a car driving slowly behind you, passing you, then coming back around to follow again? Oh yeah, it really made me feel like "he was the one for me". A real effective technique to win someone over.

Once, when I went out to eat dinner after work with a student (I was teaching and he was just a casual friend), he followed us into the restaurant and sat down across from us. When we left in the student's car (he was dropping me off at home), the man followed--and really annoyed us both! So I urged my student to see if he could somehow get behind the guy's car to follow him, and he managed it! We ended up following my stalker around for a mile or two, and then shook him off. We laughed the whole time, I'll tell you.

In the end this guy was confronted by my boss, who threatened him with going to the police, and he quit--at least for a long time. I think he stalked me a couple of times after I moved to another nearby city. About 2 years later I got a message from a mutual friend that he wanted me to know he finally "got it" and realized how off-base he was, and was going to work on his marriage. And so I hope he is doing well. Never heard from him nor saw him again.

bebu

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Wish me luck...I'm about to go on an interview...

by FreedomFrog in

jw
friends

remember when i posted a possible job interview at a daycare center...well, i've had 2 phone interviews and 1 face to face coming up in an hour.. getting this job will make or break me at this point...lol.

anyway..i'm excited and nervous at the same time... be back later to let ya all know what went on.. ~freedom frog~.

bebu

Congratulations! I'm very happy for you!

bebu

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My Letter to The Editor was Published.....

by AK - Jeff in

again it ran in the sunday edition - i hope that a few people might be 'forewarned' and thus 'forearmed' against the jw religion.

perhaps a jw or two will read it also- here was the letter:.

to the editor; on october 25 the british press was awash with the story of young emma gough from tellford, uk.

bebu

Jeff, that was an excellent piece! Your talents as a writer are amazing. Thank you for using them to help challenge the folks in your area to be aware of the dangers of this cult and its blood policy.

bebu

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Discussion of JW death on Fark.com

by Paralipomenon in

not sure if this has been posted, but i didn't see the usual suspects posting there.. http://forums.fark.com/cgi/fark/comments.pl?idlink=3183138.

interesting, over 300 comments and only a handfull favorable.

most people are getting disgusted with witnesses.

bebu

Hi Exterminator, welcome to the board! What's with bambi behind the judge? ~Very funny!

bebu

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Discussion of JW death on Fark.com

by Paralipomenon in

not sure if this has been posted, but i didn't see the usual suspects posting there.. http://forums.fark.com/cgi/fark/comments.pl?idlink=3183138.

interesting, over 300 comments and only a handfull favorable.

most people are getting disgusted with witnesses.

bebu

I didn't care for most comments, which were truly callous. Yes, the religion's rules are idiotic, and in this particular case they are deadly. But that doesn't mean the people who practice it are all worthless.

bebu

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video: The world's DUMBEST DOG

by bebu in

hubert sent me this via email, and i rofl every time i see it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4yp8369zbcu .

bebu.

bebu

LOL emo, this dog is too funny. Look how he just gets back to his bone without being bothered. He's one tough dog and I think he's having some fun! I love his vicious face, as the claws come forward slowly... those claws looks like Gollum's gnarled hand, trying to get his "precious"...

bebu

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video: The world's DUMBEST DOG

by bebu in

hubert sent me this via email, and i rofl every time i see it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4yp8369zbcu .

bebu.

bebu

hubert sent me this via email, and I ROFL every time I see it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Yp8369ZBCU

bebu

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I got that dreaded call....

by loosie in

my ex sister in law called me this morning to tell me that bother had shot himself.. he was raised a witness but stopped going at 18. he was my favorite brother always level headed and smart.. except lately.

apparently he has been robbing banks in ca this summer.

he led the police on a freeway chase and decided to shot himself instead of go to jail.. now i am wondering how well i know anyone at all anymore.. .

bebu

(((((((loosie))))))))))

I am truly sorry to hear of this. May God be compassionate and gracious to your brother, and grant peace and strength to you and your family in your great loss.

bebu