Wonderful decision.
I did the same. After i stopped the recruiting work i looked at volunteer work. I help refugees to learn the local language and in their integration.
I am so happy not to go door knocking again.
hello friends!today is a sad day for me, as seven months have gone by since my mother passed away after a decades-long fight with breast cancer..
because the witnessing/preaching/teaching work doesn't make any sense to me anymore; because it's not about any "truth"; and because it's basically useless, i've decided to quit doing it.
instead, i've decided to do something that actually can make a real difference in other people's lives.
Wonderful decision.
I did the same. After i stopped the recruiting work i looked at volunteer work. I help refugees to learn the local language and in their integration.
I am so happy not to go door knocking again.
i need information how the organization teaches members to shun any dealings with those they think are apostates, i am being labeled apostate by uncle crap head.
where is the magazine about "we wish we had the authority to kill apostates like the days of israel but the government does not allow this"?
do you have a list because my lawyer is going before a judge to show that, there is no way we can speak with them superfine's because they view us as the walking dead.
so you all know that i go with my wife to the meeting to protect the kids from the drival and pacify her.
tonight we are sitting there and she points to mathew and says something about the faithful and discreet slave and she said eplain this.
so breaking away from what i was reading in the meeting..." in search of christian freedom by franz"...i said.
Very well reasoned.
I think it is a positive sign that your wife asks you about your opinion.
as some of you might have read last week, my mother had extremely low hemoglobin and without it, she would have died.
i have somehow managed to bring her to reason and accept the transfusion.
it saved her life.
It is sad and a scandal how those elders and this organisation treats your mum and you. But that's their procedure.
I told them openly that i would accept blood for myself and my son and also the reason why i don't agree with their view of blood. They couldn't df / da me because I did not take blood, just hypothetically told them i would.
Your experience shows that they have no heart and care only for their bloody rules.
But why not look at it from a different view:
You and your mum could take this whole sad experience as a trigger to really leave. In all of this maybe your mum realizes that there is no real love in the org and that their rules are killing people. Show her that she should not feel sorry for surviving. Try to show her that a loving god (not the monster from the bible) would be rather happy that she survived as should all her friends in the congregation.
Don't fight the disassociation by action. Take it as an opportunity to leave and an example of their disgusting rules.
yesterday some jw's came over to my house and were even being nice to me, most of the time if they do come by an elder or ms may say something but the others will not, its even hard for them to say just hello (how pathetic).
( they also do this behind my back as if i don't know).
i now realize by not being their i've handed my kids right over to them!.
ray franz who gave us insight into the gb due to a crisis of conscience was an absolute moron, with absolutely no critical thinking skills whatsoever like all of us have.
i mean, to have a conscience based on some magic man in the sky.. how stupid can you be?
in search of christian freedom?
This thread shows that you still have such a DOGMATIC jw mindset.
You CAN believe in science and accept evolution as a means of how species come into existence AND seriously believe in a creator force or even a personal god. There is absolutely no doubt about that.
To call someone an idiot because he believes in something you can't disprove is rather idiotic.
yesterday some jw's came over to my house and were even being nice to me, most of the time if they do come by an elder or ms may say something but the others will not, its even hard for them to say just hello (how pathetic).
( they also do this behind my back as if i don't know).
i now realize by not being their i've handed my kids right over to them!.
Read the book "Raising Freethinkers - A guide to parenting beyond belief."
It's not easy but you got to teach them to critically think for themselves. You can't do that by aggressively showing them the bible is crap.
They need to be able to question things, even your own views. When they ask questions, you can help them to find answers with reason outside of jw thinking. But don't be dogmatic too. Make sure that they know that you support them even if they change their beliefs a thousand times. Give them a lot of love. It is a good sign, that your youngest one asks you questions.
When talking about darwin, you could show them the last sentence of his work "On the origin of species", which shows that his work is not against a belief in god.
I also have to counteract on the indoctrination my little boy gets from the cult and his mum (we are separated and soon divorced).
The above mentioned book helps me a lot ESPECIALLY CHAPTER 3. I am sure it will help you too.
there's a interesting situation emerging where i live and i want to share it all with you because its proof i think jehovah has pulled his holy spirit away.
when elders think they can steal from the government and pretend to be holy, than jehovah god has left us!.
Welcome.
So what is this interesting situation emerging?
the comments and facial expressions of judge peter mcclellan, the chair of the royal commission and angus stewart, though subdued, clearly showed their disbelief and disgust at the lack of compassion and empathy by the org and the elders and gb jackson when questioned.. this link, is a sobering look at the emotions people should feel at the abuse of their children.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1g7vpdfqs0q.
Strange thread.
I thought I would see something about the facial expression of justice Mc Clellan or Angus Stewart.
I personally thought Jackson was showing some empathy with regard to BCG. I don't know if it was his true feelings though.
so when my mom died in 2007 the main thing that kept me from losing it was that i knew i would see her again in the earthly paradise that i read and sang about in the jw publications.
i honestly fully believed in it.
we were best friends and it was devastaing to lose her.
How nice that she was your best friend.
Nobody knows for sure what happens after death. So maybe we will, maybe not, see our loved ones.
Looking at near-death experiences gave me some hope.