alshello. first of all, i'm new here. i'm a practicing jw. finally decided to create an account to see whether you could all help me.
so i am engaged to this wonderful wonderful man and in three months time we'll be married. problem is, he's getting all guilty and depressed because we did some "heavy petting". we work together and one night i stayed over at his office and it happened.
we went to the elders and tell them about the sleepover and him toucing my breasts but we left other intimate details.
now he thinks we lied and even felt guiltier than ever. he even said we'll start our marriage on a rocky basis. i am starting to believe him too.
please help me convince him! i don't want my marriage to be awful because wtbts said so. 
the bigger problem, i start having doubts about jws, but he doesn't.
p.s. what is sexual immorality by jw standard (esp. the one that should be reported to the elders)? all this time i thought it's porneia, homosexuality, and the like but not "uncleanness". guess i was wrong.
also, the elders told us we broke jehovah's law by touching intimate parts. i'd always thought porneia is breaking his law, uncleanness is breaking principles, so it's of a lesser gravity and seriousness.
guess i am a confused jw after all.
thoughts?
thanks!!
