I think that my point is, if she wants to leave, leave, but she's obviously being selfish and trying to squeeze the best out of both worlds.
Choose one, and then she won't be a slut.
If her husband is secretly abusive, then cut his dick off. I have no patience for men who don't worship women. But this gal just seems like a horny bitch who wants it all....the orgasms and the security, too.
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