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TA-DAAA!!! Notice Anything Different Today?

by Frannie Banannie in

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frannie b (21 days a member of jwd)

Do you tell your spouse or partner EVERYTHING?

by doodle-v in

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friends

from my experience, and im fairly young so i still have a lot to learn, but i found that being honest can be very difficult and it also takes a good level of trust from both parties.

one night my fiance and i just sat and told each other everything about our past, you know, (if i tell him that he might leave) that kind of stuff.

well i'll tell you it was one of the most difficult things i've ever done.

doodle-v

*hands the good Dr two little blue pills* take these and call me in the morning

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Do you tell your spouse or partner EVERYTHING?

by doodle-v in

jw
friends

from my experience, and im fairly young so i still have a lot to learn, but i found that being honest can be very difficult and it also takes a good level of trust from both parties.

one night my fiance and i just sat and told each other everything about our past, you know, (if i tell him that he might leave) that kind of stuff.

well i'll tell you it was one of the most difficult things i've ever done.

doodle-v

Watson---"Transgression????" AAAACK *doodle covers her ears* your speaking like a JW!!! LOL

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Do you tell your spouse or partner EVERYTHING?

by doodle-v in

jw
friends

from my experience, and im fairly young so i still have a lot to learn, but i found that being honest can be very difficult and it also takes a good level of trust from both parties.

one night my fiance and i just sat and told each other everything about our past, you know, (if i tell him that he might leave) that kind of stuff.

well i'll tell you it was one of the most difficult things i've ever done.

doodle-v

Well, since my wife reads this board regularly, I will have to be honest...

I hide absolutely nothing from her! Every sin and transgression is thoroughly disclosed to her in complete detail!

Right honey? LOL, nice cover Dr!! come on, whatcha hidding??? huh??

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Do you tell your spouse or partner EVERYTHING?

by doodle-v in

jw
friends

from my experience, and im fairly young so i still have a lot to learn, but i found that being honest can be very difficult and it also takes a good level of trust from both parties.

one night my fiance and i just sat and told each other everything about our past, you know, (if i tell him that he might leave) that kind of stuff.

well i'll tell you it was one of the most difficult things i've ever done.

Do you tell your spouse or partner EVERYTHING?

by doodle-v in

jw
friends

from my experience, and im fairly young so i still have a lot to learn, but i found that being honest can be very difficult and it also takes a good level of trust from both parties.

one night my fiance and i just sat and told each other everything about our past, you know, (if i tell him that he might leave) that kind of stuff.

well i'll tell you it was one of the most difficult things i've ever done.

From my experience, and im fairly young so i still have a lot to learn, but I found that being honest can be very difficult and it also takes a good level of trust from both parties. One night my fiance and I just sat and told each other everything about our past, you know, (if I tell him that he might leave) that kind of stuff. Well I'll tell you it was one of the most difficult things I've ever done.

And you know what he said? "im still here and i still love you" (awwww), but anyway from that day on i feel a wonderful sense of relief and satisfaction knowing that there is nothing im hiding from him and he'll never say "wait a minute, you never told me...."

so what are your thoughts? Do you tell your spouse or partner everything? do you think its best to be totally honest with each other? Is there ever a good time to lie when your in a relationship?

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Marrying Young

by Descender in

something has been bothering me as of late.

my younger brother, who is 17 years old plans on getting married right after he turns 18 this upcoming year.

i have quite a few problems with this, but he thinks that he knows it all at his age.. i'm concerned for several reasons.

doodle-v

Sounds to me like your brother is thinking with his "little" head

Its very sad and very true that many JW's get married very young, we can all speculate on the reason and it is fairly safe to say that the big reason is thinking that they'll get to have sex every day. As soon as the honeymoon period wears off then reality sets in.

Its hard enough being married without the add pressures of JW heavy handed regulations, low income, little experience and little maturity. As mentioned before that's a formula for distaster if any.

I hate to be the bearer of gloom and doom and for all i know he might turn out ok, but honestly he really needs to experience LIFE before he becomes responsible for someone elses. So what to do?? hmmm I would try to have a serious talk with him. Unfortunatly he may not be thinking clearly with the raging hormones and all so you need to find a way to really get through to him.

well thats my two cents, take it for what its worth and good luck!

Doodle-V

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