Aztec,
I have always felt much less need and pressure after moving to a large city like I am in now. There are many singles and so much activity. When I lived in a small town, I felt a little different on the matter.
If you live in a big city, I am sure there will be someone come along that is right. I still have a lot of problems to work out, but one day I will be at that point too.
You are so friendly, that I wouldn't worry about much Aztec. You will know when it is time. Your attitude toward people is great and someone will be there soon enough given that.
Ron