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Just had huge arguement outside hall....

by Gadget in

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a few days ago i sent a message to an elder(one of the ones from my jc) asking him if he could get in contact with my girlfriend because i was very worried about her.

after the meeting tonight he asked if he could have a chat with me outside the hall.

he explained that he could not get in contact with her, as she was out of his jurisdiction.

Gadget

I went down to see her, but she refused to see me at first because she didn't want to do anything to put me getting reinstated at risk. She finally agreed to meet up. She's fine physically, but a real mess mentally, attempting suicide in the last few weeks which I just found out about when I was down there. Problem is she hasn't told her doctor anything about whats been happening with us, because she didn't want to 'give a bad witness' to the doctor'. This really pissed me off, and I persuaded her to tell the doctor the whole story. She can't help her if she doesn't know whats going on. She kept going on about how much she's desperate for me to get reinstated, and that the only thing she could never ever deal with is if I became an apostate. How can I tell her that I don't think I'll be able to get reinstated, and how I really feel about the wbts?

Gadget

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vicki boer vs watchtower new information

by needs_lots in

last week my lawyer appealed the judges decision , based on the fact that we are not sure what will happen with costs.

now that we have appealed, the watchtower also cross appealed with 10 pages of why the "judge erred".

looks like this has openned a whole can of worms.

Gadget

Are the appeal documents lodged by the wbts in the public domain? There are people I would like to show them to, to show their true colours. Something like this would make them think about things.

Gadget

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What kind of fairy are you? * Fluff Alert *

by Elsewhere in

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what kind of male faerie are you?

take the male faerie quiz.

what kind of female faerie are you?

Gadget

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Just had huge arguement outside hall....

by Gadget in

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friends

a few days ago i sent a message to an elder(one of the ones from my jc) asking him if he could get in contact with my girlfriend because i was very worried about her.

after the meeting tonight he asked if he could have a chat with me outside the hall.

he explained that he could not get in contact with her, as she was out of his jurisdiction.

Gadget

And you're depending on ELDERS to "check on her"?

I've been doing what I can to help her, and persuaded her to get professional help. The problem is that the distance we are apart I can't always see her so I wanted to make sure the people who are seeing her most were aware of the situation. I've got no contact No for the people in her hall who've been seeing her but I know the elders in my hall have and so would have been able to pass the message on for me.

I went to work this morning, but had a chat with my boss and now I have leave until Sunday night so I'm going to go down and see her. I'll be seeing her during the day, but don't think we'll be able to on the nights, so if anyone within reasonable travelling distance of Liverpool wants to meet up for a quiet beer or something pm me and I'll give you my phone number.

Gadget

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Just had huge arguement outside hall....

by Gadget in

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friends

a few days ago i sent a message to an elder(one of the ones from my jc) asking him if he could get in contact with my girlfriend because i was very worried about her.

after the meeting tonight he asked if he could have a chat with me outside the hall.

he explained that he could not get in contact with her, as she was out of his jurisdiction.

Gadget

She's got an appointment to see a psychiatrist on 2 September. The problem with the nhs is the long queues. In the meantime her dr is making her visit every week. I've been trying to get her to go on a discussion board I found for depressed people which has counselors as moderaters but I don't know if she's been on it yet. Hopefully she'll get a taste for boards so I can encourage her to try this one.

I'm going to have a word with the PO about it, and if he gives a similar response(Would you side with one of your good friends/elder or with a df'd person) I'm going to see the CO again. The CO said we couldn't have contact, and that he was going to contact her elders to take action about it. If its wrong to contact her elders about things I want to know why the CO told me that he was going to do it, and ask what other advice the CO gave me that day is also wrong. If the PO says the elder was wrong, I want to talk to the CO about why an elder has been acting in this way.

Thanks everyone.((()))

Gadget

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Just had huge arguement outside hall....

by Gadget in

jw
friends

a few days ago i sent a message to an elder(one of the ones from my jc) asking him if he could get in contact with my girlfriend because i was very worried about her.

after the meeting tonight he asked if he could have a chat with me outside the hall.

he explained that he could not get in contact with her, as she was out of his jurisdiction.

Gadget

A few days ago I sent a message to an elder(One of the ones from my jc) asking him if he could get in contact with my girlfriend because I was very worried about her. After the meeting tonight he asked if he could have a chat with me outside the hall. He explained that he could not get in contact with her, as she was out of his jurisdiction. I explained that he knew I could not get in touch with her, but I had recieved messages from her saying she felt suicidal and would like for him to get in touch to make she she was ok. He said she was not in his jurisdiction and could not get involved, and that elders from her hall would be in contact with her and would be helping her. I told him that I believed I was the only one she had confided this in, and asked if he could pass this information on to the elders who were seeing her. He said he could not. I reminded him of the time when he told me that he was going to pass on information to her elders to put her in a judicial committee, and asked why if he coulkd pass on that information, surely he could pass this information on because of how important it is. He again repeated he could not pass it on. I asked how he would feel if something happened to her that he could have stopped by making sure the people with her had all the information, and he said fine, because its not in my jurisdiction to pass the information on so it has nothing to do with me.I stormed off telling him if something happened I would be coming to see him again. This all took place in viewand earshot of quite a few leaving the hall.

I have been keeping in contact with her making sure she's ok, but I wanted the people in her hall to know whats going on so they could help her(I live quite a distance away, and sees a lot more of them than me), but this elder would not even do that(But would if it was a judicial matter...). I couldn't believe how cold hearted he was.

Gadget

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Your Ideal Partner...

by Gadget in

dr pawlowski from wroclaw university, poland, has found that the perfect height ratio to find your ideal partner.

aparently the man should be 1.09x taller than the woman.

this would give my ideal partner height at 5ft, which more than half of my girlfriends have been!!!.

Gadget

is the standard size of common furniture part of the equation?

I don't think so, but now that you mention it we could do with lowering the height of things...

Gadget, whose real name is originated from the latin for small.

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Your Ideal Partner...

by Gadget in

dr pawlowski from wroclaw university, poland, has found that the perfect height ratio to find your ideal partner.

aparently the man should be 1.09x taller than the woman.

this would give my ideal partner height at 5ft, which more than half of my girlfriends have been!!!.

Gadget

you have way too much time on your hands.

In my job I spend a lot of time on stand by, so I get a lot of time for reading. This was a thesis written by a proffessor who spent years researching it! Is he right?

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Need some legal advice(UK)

by Gadget in

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my brother is having some problems with a violent ex-boyfriend, which resulted in him getting beaten up last weekend.

he's been to the police about it, and they adviced him to take out a restraining order, which would mean his ex would be arrested if he came within 200 yards of him, but this would cost 1500 pounds to get a solicitor to arrange this.

he cannot afford this, and is not eligable for legal aid.

Gadget

My brother is having some problems with a violent ex-boyfriend, which resulted in him getting beaten up last weekend. He's been to the police about it, and they adviced him to take out a restraining order, which would mean his ex would be arrested if he came within 200 yards of him, but this would cost 1500 pounds to get a solicitor to arrange this. He cannot afford this, and is not eligable for legal aid. Do you need a solicitor to do this, or can you represent yourself in court, and what would the legal costs be for this? I have experience of representing myself in court.

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Your Ideal Partner...

by Gadget in

dr pawlowski from wroclaw university, poland, has found that the perfect height ratio to find your ideal partner.

aparently the man should be 1.09x taller than the woman.

this would give my ideal partner height at 5ft, which more than half of my girlfriends have been!!!.

Gadget

Dr Pawlowski from Wroclaw University, Poland, has found that the perfect height ratio to find your ideal partner. Aparently the man should be 1.09x taller than the woman. This would give my ideal partner height at 5ft, which more than half of my girlfriends have been!!!

How well does this ratio work with you and your partner/ex-partners?

Gadget