i celebrated halloween and my birthday and the elders have been told.
husband told the elders i've called the religion a cult.
they said i'm "heading down a road to be an apostate.
cognac,
It sounds like they're confused how to move forward, or undecided amoungst the body, that's why they are involving your father and the CO. You have left and are moving on wonderfully. I hope this nonsense doesn't get in the way of you celebrating Xmas with your kids.
Go for it, power to you girl.
Kate xx
i've been thinking about brother morris' statement at the zone meeting this past weekend that inactive ones are bloodguilty.
bloodguilt is defined as "guilty of murder or manslaughter.
" murder is #1 on the list of disfellowshipping offenses- all they would have to do is change the wording from "murder" to "bloodguilt" and suddenly there you have grounds to disfellowship anyone who's inactive.
I can't see WT Df'ing inactive ones. They want to keep the numbers up and as many have already said they want to keep the money rolling in. It's just manipulation, so some inactive ones who still believe will actually become more active. this stuff works, that's why they keep doing it.
Kate xx
in honour of jgnat i have completed her template:.
is your wife still an active witness?
no thankfuly - she has only been to the memorail, a convention and the kh once this year and has done none of that for at least 6 months.
Thank you Fraz that was interesting. Kate xx
my wife went out of curiosity.
she is out enough to where it doesn't affect our marriage, but she keeps it a secret from her family and others.
she is beginning to understand what it means to give over your thinking to an organization, and once she works that out there will be no going back.. so she went to the branch visit.
That was a nice text.....it's nice to see you don't resent your parents....good example.
Kate xx
i'm just bored.
i'm currently (right now) running a mic up and down the aisles, recognising the faulty logic, one line platitudes, and indoctrination techniques.
i like posting while on active duty.
My son is sitting right there too. He is being forced to go by his dad. Hopefully he will leave soon.
Doh, you are there for a reason. Talk to your parents if you can't take anymore.
Kate xx
one of two things will happen.
i'll get disfellowshipped and never have to worry about being "told on" again for living a normal life, or; they won't do anything.. either way, it's freeing and i feel relieved... it will be sad if i get disfellowshipped but i've come to terms and made peace with it as much as can be expected.
it's a huge weight to have off.. was told on a week ago and haven't heard anything.
AB....she's been gone for over a year and she wants to celebrate birthdays and holidays.....it's out of her control now. But at least cognac and the kids are happy having fun.
Kate xx
this was pointed out by throwingawayjehovah.
http://www.reddit.com/r/exjw/comments/2lnkst/this_was_in_a_mormon_catalog_that_got_sent_to_us/.
http://www.coreyegbert.com/blog/i-want-to-be-baptized.
so who was first? Or did they come out around the same time?-Baltar447
I think they came out the same time and the GB are ruled by the same person as the mormon leaders. It's just one big cult with differing beliefs. Completely wacko. Kate xx
one of two things will happen.
i'll get disfellowshipped and never have to worry about being "told on" again for living a normal life, or; they won't do anything.. either way, it's freeing and i feel relieved... it will be sad if i get disfellowshipped but i've come to terms and made peace with it as much as can be expected.
it's a huge weight to have off.. was told on a week ago and haven't heard anything.
cognac,
I have been reading all your posts. Your story seems very typical and stressful. I think WT has a lot to answer for all you did was go out and have some fun with the kids. You are handling it well. I suppose it is a relief to be found out then you can really be yourself.
If you get invited to a JC will you go or let them DF you without you there? They may just reprove you though.
Thanks for keeping us informed, it's healing to know we are not alone in our experiences.
Kate xx
this was pointed out by throwingawayjehovah.
http://www.reddit.com/r/exjw/comments/2lnkst/this_was_in_a_mormon_catalog_that_got_sent_to_us/.
http://www.coreyegbert.com/blog/i-want-to-be-baptized.
hahahaha!!!! That made my day. JWs truly are seperate from the world. So funny. Kate xx
its been done for a long time.
relieved with the idea of finally being free without the fight.
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If you can remain ammicable for the kids. But no divorce is ever really ammicable there are always hurt feelings. Kate xx
