Children, OI!
I've heard too many stories, and known several friends, who had separation from their children, with dire consequences.
If I had an intractable mate, and children, whose safety was at sake, I could do it. But I think that is the only way for me.
Let's NOT judge others, until we have walked in their shoes - seriously. It's hard to have a health problem and be alone. Fear of having no family is REAL.
Ancient cultures recognized this - banishment was the worst punishment, next to DEATH. Let's not discount the fear of shunning.
xo
tal