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  to print a page

  by zeb in

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  2. experiences

  how do i print a page from pe or any other area please.

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  talesin

  Hit the "F" key that is labelled "PrtScrn".

  Then, open your "paint" program, hit "paste", and voila, there is the page!

  Now, you can Save it, Print it, or whatever.

  xx
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  Why attack?

  by newqatarjob in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  as someone brought up as a jw and been an elder and been disfellowshipped (twice!!!

  ) i find it difficult to understand why ex jws have to attack the religion, yes religion, not cult or sect.

  i am no longer disfellowshipped just do not want to practice anymore.

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  To address the OP,

  The religion protects pedophiles. I have been an advocate for adult survivors of child sexual abuse for over 20 years, and the Watchtower organization is now on my radar.

  For the sake of the children.
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  Is Reporting Child Abuse Mandatory?

  by berrygerry in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  was reading the comments section of the guardian story about candace conti.. an apologist or two were defending the inaction of elders - comparing it to attorney/client privilege.. commonwealth countries do not have the same blanket coverage that is appealed to by wts.. when searching whether or not reporting is mandatory in canada, came across this site:.

  http://cwrp.ca/faqs#q5 .

  do i need to report child abuse and neglect?.

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  I live in Canada.

  When I took training as a crisis intervenor for a sexual assault crisis line, we trained with the RCMP and also a lawyer in some of our sessions.

  Reporting is mandatory in Canada for all adults. To my knowledge, there have been very few instances where someone was actually charged for failure to report. However, the responsibility to report is considered greater when a person works with children, or in a counseling, teaching, or any position where a child may be looking to them for support.

  Even on the crisis line, we had to identify to any minor that we had to report any call where they told us about being raped/molested, immediately and without exception.
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  A couple questions for atheists on Suffering

  by little_Socrates in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  who told you that the world should be free from suffering?.

  do you find any value in suffering?.

  do you think it is possible to experience all the beauty and goodness and pleasure the world offers without also experiencing the bad?

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  talesin

  To address the OP,

  Suffering is merely part of the human condition, as is bliss. It's not going away. Although I would love to live on a Star Trek planet Earth, that will never be my reality.

  We can choose to let suffering make us bitter, or conversely. let it teach us humility or other qualities of strength. It doesn't mean we have to like it. I guess I'm speaking of physical suffering, but same could apply to emotional - you are suffering emotionally? Seek healing, and learn and grow as you follow that path.
  
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  Jehovah cult kicked me out - but not the man who raped me,' victim claims

  by defender of truth in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  positions of trusta jehovahs witness spokesman said: we have tried to educate families to try and educate and protect their children, so that children can protect themselves if they find themselves in a situation.if jehovahs were found to have abused someone if they are in a position of trust they would no longer have a position of trust.asked why about the claims sewell had not been kicked out of the jehovahs the spokesman insisted we cant comment on specific situations.we dont give out personal information, he said.http://www.walesonline.co.uk/news/wales-news/jehovah-cult-kicked-out---8891636

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  Oh, their day is coming, don't doubt it for a minute!
  
  This quote from the OP:
  
  
  

  Legal action
  Karen and another Jehovah’s sex attack victim are attempting to sue the institution for what happened. The religion has already paid out millions of dollars in the US after being swamped in scandals.
  “All I ever wanted them to do was say sorry,” Karen said.
  “Why don’t they just apologise? They are supposed to believe in the bible.”
  When articles about her were shared on the internet she was dubbed “an apostate.”

  
  
  
  Hubris is a very destructive quality, and the JWS is now finding out what that means. Be strong, tell the TRUTH about your childhood - you may not need/want to sue or prosecute, but make sure that everyone you trust, KNOWS that the JWS is evil!

  xx
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  Breaking cognitive dissonance - or - how to get Bill Cosby to help a dub see the light

  by undercover in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  let me preface this by saying, i don't know if mr. cosby is guilty of all that he's being accused of.

  the number of women coming out against him is pretty damning, but no real proof has been offered (that i'm aware of anyway).

  and it is this circumstantial, hearsay evidence that can actually play into the hands of someone trying to get a jw to grasp the seriousness of the child abuse claims in the jw religion.. how so?.

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  It's a great analogy, and to a logical person, would make sense. But, no, I don't think it would open the eyes of a JW. Either they are ready, or they are not.
  
  Hey, even in the negative, it works, though. If a JW is ready to see TTATT, then, yeah, this could be the 'drop in the bucket'.

  Good stuff!
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  How to raise awareness about child abuse.

  by DATA-DOG in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  here's an idea.

  we know the wtbts fears exposure more than anything.

  so what if we made an organized, concerted effort to contact every celebrity jw that we can think of?

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  I know that JaRule (sp?) has spoken about his JW upbringing, and I think, of all the celebs, he might be one that would be supportive. Anyone from his hometown?

  Here's a thought .... how about a celeb who has a personal interest in this because of their own life experience (and maybe even a 'recovering Scientologist like Lisa Remini, who is speaking out about the cult), who would 'take up the cause'.

  ... just a thought
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  The Last Cup [please add an ending]

  by compound complex in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  good morning, fellow posters and friends:.

  please use your imagination to complete this little tale.

  several endings came to me while drinking my morning cup of coffee on the patio.. thanks.. cc.

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  talesin

  It has been 13 days since I was able to get a broadcast on my short-wave radio. The last I heard, there were ships hovering over major cities all over the world ... my own, beloved LA, New York, Tokyo, London. It's hard to fathom.

  From my viewpoint in the mountains, the haze over the city is starting to dissipate, but I fear that there are few survivors of the initial attack. For now, my mission is to build a long-term shelter, and learn to live off the land.

  Once I have that accomplished, I will seek out other survivors.
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  15 Years of Jehovahs-Witness.com

  by Simon in

  1. forum
  2. announcements

  yes, today is the forum's 15th birthday!.

  i never thought for one moment that it would survive this long or have so many people post so many great subjects over the years.. it is still humbling when i get pm's or emails from people expressing how the site has helped them and of course thanks goes to all the posters who have shared their experiences and make helpful and supportive comments to others who are in the sometimes difficult process of learning the real truth about 'the truth'.. the site has gone through several different incarnations over the last 15 years running on different platforms, different databases and different hosts but we've been able to keep all the old topics.

  the current site is still being developed and i'm hoping to push another major upgrade soon.. i also may have some other news to share soon about the future of the site so stay posted.. until then, here's the the next 15 years!

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  talesin

  ^ Ditto What OUTLAW said.
  
  (BTW, OUTLAW, forgot to say on that other thread, re 70s kids,,, I hear ya, brother! xx) :two_hearts:

  And ya know, I am gonna make this all sentimental and put lots of smiley stuff on it! :smirk:

  It's been a while for me, soon to be 13 years, and ha! This thread made me think of how much life has changed me since i joined.

  Happy Birthday! :fireworks::fireworks::fireworks:

  Thank YOU for giving me a 'tribe', after so many years of isolation. I left the KH at 18, and lost everything in 1978, when I was DF'd, at 20.
  
  In 2002. I was recovering from my first breast surgery, and so low, so poor, having no family support. My ex gave me a PC, and one of the first things I did when I got online was look for exJWs - that brought me to JWD. It was a life-saver, and being a part of this wonderful group of people is one of the best things that ever happened to me.

  A couple of friends that I met early-on, have turned into chosen family and I thank you that, SO MUCH! I also made some online friends here, some that still communicate, and others that don't - and that's okay - but ahhh, the names are running through my mind now, as well as the avatars! (I hope life is well for you, first of all my Katie - you keep on going gurl, so PROUD you are a paramedic and that was your dream - Rocketman, and HappyDad and your daughter, K, and so many others! xoxoxo to you all.)

  (RIP dear Arthur Ward aka Prophecor, recently departed). :sunrise:

  Five years ago, my life changed forever when I severed a ligament in my foot. Long story, but suffice to say that pain and inability to function is very humbling. It has also made me quite bitchy at times, which is frustrating, as that is not my nature (nods to Cofty - sorry, man). But, JWN has helped me through this time. I know I'm different - not as patient, and sometimes a bit crazy with pain. I hate that, but am getting better at dealing with it.

  Anyhow, thanks to you, and Angh, and your kids, for all the sacrifices and hard work that had to happen, for this board to be running for so many years, and successfully (by that, I mean, protects its members, easy to navigate, and hell, surviving the Bush elections LOL, as well as the atheist vs Xtian debates of recent times).

  You know, you have literally saved lives, and relieved a lot of misery.

  xx:sparkling_heart:
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  Separated from a loveless Marriage

  by PLAYGROUND in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  i don't know where to start.

  i got married a year and half ago.

  some months into the marriage things where discovered.

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  talesin

  Dear PLAYGROUND,

  I knew a sister, when I was a teen. Her husband was the same as yours - physically/emotionally abusive. She went to the elders, but he, too, was very charming and a good liar. She was counselled to stay, and she did. For years, this carried on, and few in the congregation knew the reality of the hell she was living, until the final time.

  He eventually beat her so badly that she was hospitalized with serious injuries. She finally left him, but he was not disfellowshipped until he moved in with another woman.

  Please do not go back to him! The elders are not looking out for your best interests. You are strong, and GOOD. You have nothing to feel bad about - HE is the abuser.

  Stay strong in your resolve, because life will get better. You are intelligent, and I suggest you start reading, research online about the religion.

  xo

  I know you can do this, yes you can.