The broadcast on the Reveal link tells the story, and well worth listening to. Wow, great story, thanks BA!
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https://www.revealnews.org/blog/jehovahs-witnesses-shield-child-sexual-abusers-from-police-report-says/jehovahs witnesses shield child sex abusers from police, report says.
by trey bundy / december 7, 2015 .
jehovahs witnesses policies allow child sexual abusers to operate within their congregations without fear that they will be reported to police, according to a new report published by the australian government.
The broadcast on the Reveal link tells the story, and well worth listening to. Wow, great story, thanks BA!
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i wasn't going to post until after my hearing.
but i have changed my mind due to a pm.
yesterday was a terrible day.
When those terrible days come along, full of memories and the helpless feelings - remember that you are safe NOW. I am so glad to read that you are getting this type of support! When I look up at the stars, I will think of you, umbertoecho, and know that *we* are not alone.
Sharing your healing, and being supportive of others, is the best thing, and you have my support and admiration.
xx
tal :sunglasses:
PS. I, too, have always been socially inept. It's a skill set which we were prevented from learning. It's a hard way to be, with so few people making the effort to get past the protective walls. My heart goes out to you. xx
even after leaving the organization, it still lurks in the background like a shadow.. as some of you know, i met a wonderful girl a while ago (which i'm going to need your help with).
she is a catholic and i am open and very respectful of her beliefs.
however, i know there will be a time where i will have to tell her that i once was a witness... and to be honest, i'm quite scared of that.. i don't want things to be ruined between us because of a disgusting cult that i was in.
I had a hard time with my in-laws. Though I never returned, my MIL hated the JWS and treated me like garbage - she never trusted that I would not return to the JWS. It was ironic, with her punishing me for being JW, and them shunning me for leaving. The marriage didn't survive, for various reasons, but not being able to 'belong' to my new family certainly played a part in the reasons why I left him.
I don't think she should care (most RC don't seek to marry in the church nowadays). Don't let fear hold you back!
All the best,
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as a good jw i never smoked a joint or nibbled on some brownies.
Pot is not highly addictive as some other known drugs but can develop into discrepancy issues.
It can be abused just like alcohol to the detriment of the user though
Okay. There is no comparison. This is 'apples and oranges'. No one has EVER died from using pot. It is not addictive, not "highly addictive" or "somewhat addictive" - this is an either/or - it can't be a 'little bit addictive', just as you cannot be a 'little bit pregnant'. You do not have black outs from using mj. It does not rot your liver and kill brain cells. AND ETC.
Pot is not for adolescents, just like a lot of things. That's why we have laws against under-age gambling, drinking and driving, to name a few activities that are not appropriate for undeveloped bodies and minds to participate in. That's why most pharmaceuticals should not be prescribed for children - they are intended for adults.
People with unresolved emotional issues abuse pot. Just like they abuse video games, porn, food, sex, work and a plethora of other things that are not addictive. These 'addictions' are methods of self-medication that people use when they fail to address the emotional problems - instead, they bury the problems by over-indulging in the thing that makes them 'feel good.'
Facts, people, FACTS.
haha, I get a bit frustrated with the lack of reality in these threads.
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..your experience with the watchtower corporation:.
i'll start...... bully boy elders.
we are having weekly terror attacks.
you cant just keep carpet bombing as little ground has been won against issi's in one year.
they are making millions from oil and farming.
kaik, you stole my comment! : )
We in North America, have had farcical campaigns on ideologies for decades.
1950s and ongoing. The War Against Communism (mostly in USA) - FAIL.
1980s and ongoing, The War On Drugs - FAIL.
1990s and ongoing, The War On Child Poverty - FAIL.
Now, it's the War On Terrorism - doomed to FAIL.
There are social reasons why we have these problems - we do not live in a perfect world. Injustice prevails, and that will always breed social unrest. The 'global economy', and its billions of abused work slaves, which is now feeding the machine that makes the rich get even richer, is going to crash, and SOON.
The Western world needs to WAKE UP and stop the cultural imperialism, bleeding of natural resources, and the xenophobia. Ack, it's all too crazy. smdh
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as a good jw i never smoked a joint or nibbled on some brownies.
REEFER MADNESS!
Full Movie found on youtube - an 'original propaganda' film. ; )
it amazes me how many of you have left it all behind, including family, brothers and sisters, friends and a full network of people.
i for one cannot find the courage to breakaway, and this causes me great anxiety and stress.
it eats me alive to think that if i open my mouth everyone i know will simply turn their back on me.
I never got over it. But when I think about living a lie, in my family, I feel physically ill. So I made the right choice for me.
: )
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some time ago, i wrote an extensive article on shunning and published it on my website.
since that website had views on doctrinal matters that no longer reflect my current stand, i took the website down.
however, my views on this matter are still current, and for the benefit of everyone here, i'm going to post the article here.
as a good jw i never smoked a joint or nibbled on some brownies.
And this is why I say "do your own research" ........... there will never be a consensus.
May the Force be with you!
: )
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