What i don't understand also is how they don't check into things for themselves just because the society tells them not to
Exactly! I said this to my mother, and she said when they first started studying, they went to the library to verify that Jesus did indeed die on a stake not a cross, just like the societies publications said. And it was infact confirmed! Guess that settles it all then, doesn't it. Yes, this part of it is soooooooooooooooooo frustrating.