Thank you for those links jgnat, love the rider and the elephant analogy. Enjoyed the links.
I have this little being in my head that wakes up and says "oh? really?... where's the data?"
(although lately my little being isn't getting much sleep !)
Makes me a bit of a doubting Thomas but I think its helping me to form a happier
relationship with my elephant !!! lol
I agree with your "habituation to submission" comment as I am since recent times "back in"
and I see the process in action around me but I reckon those reminder articles that
I guess are part of the submission process, are subliminally directed at the elders
as it may well be recognised the reality of that "kindly care" often goes missing in action.