Well ItsMyLife, I empathise with you, I also was a born in and we really didn't fully understand
what was being thrust upon us. We did what we were told. We should have got a medal for that.
Sadly, rules are more important in their eyes than torn emotions and struggle. You are in the
right place for encouragement and support even if the posts are sometimes seemingly cold.
Ultimately the folks here reach out and feel your pain and want to help as best they can,
and we pick up a few linguistic skills on the way !!!! lol
Heartfelt regards to you
jtd