on another treat some of the ladies commented on the married brothers hitting on them or making sexual remarks to them.
this brought back to mind the personal custom i had about not looking the sisters over when they walked by at meetings.
i would look away or down when and sister passed by.
Sexual harassment is a joke?
not at all. but it's not like it doesnt happen everyday. when it's such a common occurrence, i guess it's easy to treat the topic a little lightly now and then. as i said before, i do not condone the behavior, but there's not too much you can do about it.
i had posted this on another thread but it was a little off topic so someone ask me to start a new thread and get the discussion going on this topic.
i do not mean to offend you ladies out there and i really am not sexist as i really love all of you.
i have had it told to me by people of your sex, they don't understand us guys.
valis, i fully agree with you. women can be equally as capable as men of being deceptive in the early stages of a relationship. i can't speak about it from experience though, so i let it lie. 'meeting the ambassador'...nice...im'a write that one down....:P
oh, and thanks, dr helped me with the av. :)
from my experience, and im fairly young so i still have a lot to learn, but i found that being honest can be very difficult and it also takes a good level of trust from both parties.
one night my fiance and i just sat and told each other everything about our past, you know, (if i tell him that he might leave) that kind of stuff.
well i'll tell you it was one of the most difficult things i've ever done.
so you perfer to leave in a fantasy instead of know the real deal on issues
um, hardly. that's why i said "sometimes". some things are just unnecessary bits of information that i'd rather not know because nothing will come of my knowing. if it's a big deal then obviously i want to know. that would be the OTHER times.
(edited to add - sorry if that came off as smart alecky; i'm incredibly cranky today. :)
(edited again to fix misspelled 'edited' and say thanks bro for the cherry, i feel muuuuuch better now! :P but i ran out of posts so i figured i'd sneak this in on the sly ;)
on another treat some of the ladies commented on the married brothers hitting on them or making sexual remarks to them.
this brought back to mind the personal custom i had about not looking the sisters over when they walked by at meetings.
i would look away or down when and sister passed by.
i had posted this on another thread but it was a little off topic so someone ask me to start a new thread and get the discussion going on this topic.
i do not mean to offend you ladies out there and i really am not sexist as i really love all of you.
i have had it told to me by people of your sex, they don't understand us guys.
So what I say to you ladies out there that gravitate back to an abusive relationship, I can't honestly say I feel sorry for you.
whoa, how did i miss that?? huh????????
and ps, i think nice guys are very attractive. :)
omg!!!!.
who says dreams don't come true?!?!.
http://www.dallasstars.com/team/index.cfm-cont_type_id=1646.
sigh, MUST you tempt me with all these cute texas boys? dont we have any hot hockey players in california? ;) lucky duck! :P
on another treat some of the ladies commented on the married brothers hitting on them or making sexual remarks to them.
this brought back to mind the personal custom i had about not looking the sisters over when they walked by at meetings.
i would look away or down when and sister passed by.
i really doubt there are many women who didnt experience this on a regular basis. i chalk it up to being part and parcel of being female. not that i condone it, i'm just not surprised by it at all.
omg!!!!.
who says dreams don't come true?!?!.
http://www.dallasstars.com/team/index.cfm-cont_type_id=1646.
oooooh, is that the hockey hottie?
i had posted this on another thread but it was a little off topic so someone ask me to start a new thread and get the discussion going on this topic.
i do not mean to offend you ladies out there and i really am not sexist as i really love all of you.
i have had it told to me by people of your sex, they don't understand us guys.
well, in my limited experience, i have to say i really think most women do want a nice guy. the probelm is, the bad ones don't start out bad, they start out nice. once they've got you, their true not-so-nice- colors start seeping out. it's just a lot harder to dump the not-so-nice ones, you end up sort of stuck with them.
from my experience, and im fairly young so i still have a lot to learn, but i found that being honest can be very difficult and it also takes a good level of trust from both parties.
one night my fiance and i just sat and told each other everything about our past, you know, (if i tell him that he might leave) that kind of stuff.
well i'll tell you it was one of the most difficult things i've ever done.
aw thanks mentor ;) i was pretty peeved, to put it lightly. actually, i AM pretty peeved about it still. i just do not condone that sort of thing and my knowing about it isnt helpful, i dont have a frickin time machine!
