But the gay marriage movement makes the government an integral part of their marriage by stating that they need to get permission to be married, just to get a name on a death certificate, as in one case. You mean he couldn't just go to his congressman and get help with that? That would be more personal and fulfilling.
Just for fun, you should try actually making sense one of these days. Or, you know, knowing what you're talking about. Or how government works.