Yeah, the above "Hurt Feelings Report" is NOT a personal attack on the OP. *rolls eyes*
It's not. It's a comment on the whole "I'm not saying who, but I am making it plain who I mean" method of complaining. It' a comment on the method of whining where the person is making it plain who they are complaining about but simply don't have the fortitude to say so.
It's a rather childish method and calling that method out isn't a personal attack.
The language and TONE of atheists is rarely 'reasonable' and what would be considered acceptable in an academic debate. It's more like a dirty politics debate. Don't pee on my leg and tell me it's raining.
I doubt you've any idea what the tone of academic debates are. Don't pretend to know things you don't.