Viviane I cannot imagine you ever as a witness, as little as i know of you (only your Ronda Rousey debating style). Were you like an insane Pioneer? or just sort of found yourself as a witness one day and you were like wtf is this madness??
Born in. Tried to get out at 16, but threats and no where to go kept me in, so to avoid going insane I shoved all doubts to the back of my mind and shut them out, met a boy (I specifically mean boy) when I was 19, got married, kids....eventually was able to support myself via education and work and got out at 35, was mentally out in my late 20's when I could no longer pretend it wasn't all bullshit, but pretended to go along for several more years while I planned my exit, both financially and as a parent to ensure I would not lose a court fight over my kids if it came to that.
Now I rely upon no one and nothing for my happiness and well-being. I am wearing a bracelet that says "Demand Evidence. Think Critically". I am having a sangria at this very moment with the friend mentioned on the letter to Angus, her laying on the couch with her feet propped up on my legs while I work.