Shunning? That's what witnesses do and I'm strictly against that nonsense. Everything else you mentioned is just a generalization.
This is a typical theist position of wanting to claim the good stuff and say "oh, all that bad stuff I reject" even though it's part and parcel of their belief system. They do it with themselves because they do it with their god, try to claim it awesome and pretend the really really horrible stuff can be waved away.
It's a joke. It's both morally and intellectually dishonest.