I really really DID NOT want to have my first son circumcised. I thought it was unecessary but my husband did not want his sons to feel different from him since he was circumcised and since we were full blown JWs at the time I had to submit. Being post partum and emotional i cried hard after it was done. It was so distressing to hear my son screaming, even now thinking about it I cringe. Of course I ended up having all boys so I had to go through it 2 more times! Although it got easier with each one.
As far as preference I don't have experience with uncircumcised but I have seen porn videos of uncut and I will say it looked like the ladies struggled more giving BJ'S with the extra skin so maybe I feel fortunate to have a circumcised hubby.