I'm not very sentimental and I seldom cry. But tonight I am. Your sad news reminded me of my stepsister, many years younger than I, the one I last saw when she was five and living on the other side of the world.
Her poor life was exactly like your sister's and she, too, died early. In my sister's case, her death brought relief from the demons that plagued her in life. Wouldn't it be nice if, somewhere out there, they're together and marveling at how much better the future looks from their new vantage point?
Much love from our family to you during this difficult time, Lady Lee.