well, first thanks all for the posts before i left,
it went great,,,,i did not recognize him,,,,i couldnt believe it,,what a fine young man he became,,,,we had 2 hours of wonderful talking together (bad grammer but i am still in a fog:)
when it was over we stood outside coffee shot for a few min and i am sure i saw a few tears, then he hugged me, for quite a few seconds...and basically he said he would leave in my hands to contact him,,,,here i was worried he wouldnt want to see me for another 9 years
it was actually my sister in law(toronto) when he went to a wedding in summer, that spoke very hightly of me, we were friends since gr.7,,,,,that got him thinking. and his girlfriend apparently is very proud of him to take this step,,,,,,and he said"how could he go on in life if he had this feelihng towards his mother, would it hinder him with all relationships with other women,etc'
not bad figuiring for a kid,eh? anyway, i left feeling very content, and ready to move on in life,,,to start to open up again,,just a smidge though,,,,,
he even asked me if i was doing anything for xmas,,so maybe
anyway, just wanted to let you know,,,i thought i would never see this son every again,,,and here he made the1.5 hrs ride each way to see me
wendy