I got a 15...I am shocked it is that high.
Why wasn't there an option for castrating your husband if he cheated?
by JH 41 Replies latest jw friends
I got a 15...I am shocked it is that high.
Why wasn't there an option for castrating your husband if he cheated?
i took it twice...once as I would have answered it two years ago...and got a "10".
And then as I would answer today...and got a "65"
Funny how quickly we can change...
u/d
"0"
Remind me never to date any women from JWD.
...Why?
Legolas a "zero"? Liar, liar, pants on fire.......
Hey Hey......No I am Not!!!!....I am Loyal......If nothing else...LOL!
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strippersI realize that some people find this ok, I am torn on this. I don't like my mate, if deeply involved with going. It really sucks. After all I want to be the one stripping for him. Common sense. If I suck at it, then go pull your damn wallet out and do all that needs to be done to help me have a stripper body and send me to class. I am not opposed to that. Damn would that not be the coolest gift. A gym membership, maybe a private trainer and a few strip classes. I WOULD LOVE THAT! Who wouldn't? Lord knows with 3 kids and my workload that I cannot afford it. So really. I am not that bugged by it, but in the fairy tale world, someone loves me enough to help me get the tools needed to empower myself. Not that I do not have confidence, but why wouldn't I like to be treated like a pampered princess and get the chance to attain a kick ass body?
Sparky, I went to a club once. The strippers do not have perfect bodies. They don't all have firm or large breasts. Some of them are obviously mothers and some have jiggly legs.They keep the lights very low, almost dark, because you can't airbrush real women and take away their flaws.They want men to be mesmerized and dimming the lights adds to the fantasy. One of the dancers shook my hand and her hand felt like she had been plowing the lower forty. Not soft! Another kept her dress on and just pulled it down to show her breasts. She was an older Asian woman.
It was obvious the whole thing is a money makin' operation. All songs lasted three minutes. The ladies "danced" on stage for two songs. They had to get out of their clothing and back into them within those two songs. Only one of them was truly sexy or knew how to perform. She was the fattest one! And guess what, the men threw more dollar bills at her than anyone else. She had a line of men follow her to the VIP room. That happened for no other dancer. I'd guess she was a size 16-18. She was blonde. But she did know, like Mae West, how to vamp it up, something the younger, thinner girls did not know how to do.
It soon became obvious that the dances were basically an ad for lap dances. And of course after each ad dance the dancer walked around begging for tips. They also begged people to have lap dances at $10 a song. Now, if each song only plays for three minutes a piece, do the math.The money adds up pretty fast.
It's all very obvious from the moment you walk in that the girls and club owners are interested in one thing only: your wallet, or the guy you came with...his wallet. I did see some girls there alone who were getting dances.
I went to the club because I was tired of the mystery. I laughed the whole time I was there. I just found it all a source of giggles. I no longer worry about strippers. It's not a problem in my life right now anyway.
Oh yes, and I agree with you, expecting loyalty is not the same thing as outrageus jealousy.
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Clearly I expect high standards, this moslty includes infidelity involving real people (wether that be in person or over the internet).
I would not consider more fantasy situations (porn, strippers) to be cheating - as long as it did not affect my every day life.
occasional porn - im fine with
FHN- I laughed when I read your post about the trip to the strippers! After long thought, I do think it boils down to loyalty. I am pretty tough on that subject.