I find that the gym is a great place to work out aggression, and really builds confidence.
When you put a few hundred pounds of metal on a bar, and then make that bar go where you want it to, when you want it to, it is such a release, and its all because YOU are doing it. Not god, not the elders, not your mom. Its YOU.
I love that feeling, and I hope everyone finds a way to acheive that feeling.
I don't buy into what the media says. I'm not less of a person because I'm big. I'm more of a person, and I'm happy to be that way. I'm in perfect health, and see no reason why I should eat only salad and diet coke.