The day I was told i was going to be d/f i my wife also did a test and found out she is pregnant. Yesterday she went to the doctor and she is already 9 weeks. I can't think of a better way to move on and create a new and wonderful life.
I am 36, going on 21, and have a 19 yo step son and 13 yo step daughter that i love dearly. I often go clubbing with my step son. But I was so screwed up about life whilst being a JW I swore I would never have my own kids, even though my wife has been wanting one for the last 8 years that we have been married. I could not bear to bring a child into a world ruled by a blood thirsty God who is about to destroy virtually everyone.
But over the last 12 months i have learnt that the perverse view of life i had was not real, but cult induced, and i love life now. I have been so much more relaxed about the future and believe having children is a wonderful way to go forward. I am sure that it will love me unconditionally and i will not be letting it be influenced by more family in regards to conditional love.
This will be a big test as I refuse to be shunned by anyone. I will not allow anyone to visit my child that is not comfortable being civil to me. I do not want my child, even as a baby being subjected to such an evil spirit.