Here's you chance, tell the organization how you really feel about the shunning arrangement. Merry Magdalene has inspired me, and a fresh, right-off-the-press group has been formed,
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/ComeBackMom/
There you can post your message to the society. Or, posted it here and we'll arrange to have it added to the collection.
Maybe, if we collect enough, we'll advertise and send an open letter to the society.
Wouldn't that be fun?