My loyal dub wife is careful not to flaunt her JW activities in front of me. Whenever she prepares a talk or does any studying, it is at a time when I'm not around. She always leaves for the meetings with a smile, so she does not try to guilt me in any way.
Yesterday I came home unexpectedly and she was studying her WT for the afternoon meeting. She had her WT and Bible open. Seeing her do this it struck me how much of a ritual it really is. I know she underlines the paragraphs and makes a note of what the scripture says in the margin, at least she used to. But what real study is involved? I have discovered through boards like this the value of presenting an idea and having it freely discussed. If a board does not allow the presentation of differing opinions it is of no use to me anymore.
A while ago I happened to overhear the WT study piped into my aged parent's home. A relative of mine was conducting it, and I know when I was still going it seemed that he just did a quick study of the article before the meeting. It was so evident hearing it what a ritual that has become. It's really no different than the priest in the mass doing all the stuff they do. It amazes me these intelligent persons cannot figure that out.