the seven year itch (page 4)

kid-A

He said he wasn't sexually attracted to me anymore

This statement is HUGE in its implications. As much as men will deny it, most men need sex for romantic love, most women need love to enjoy sex. Note I said "romantic" love, we can certainly express non-sexual love but to be in a romantic relationship, I think most men would find good sex essential. Sex is a barometer for the relationship and a vicious, downward spiral starts as the woman withdraws from sex due to a lack of love while the man withdraws emotionally due to the lack of sex.....

There is no answer to the "seven year itch" conumdrum except to know that we all KNOW at a certain level, when a relationship is truly on its deathbed. Speaking from my own experience and the similarity to what you are going through, it might be time to consider alternatives. I hung on to an empty relationship simply because I was afraid of being alone and vulnerable. 3 years later, I was married to the love of my life, my soul mate and best friend (now 7 years from now....ha ha ha....dont wanna even consider that! )

Crumpet

thank you lucifer and lola - licks duly returned in a puppy dog fashion - its good to have the liberati here in force.

PMJ - I am SOOOO sorry - it was just the way you express yourself was so feminine. Have you checked out your own Broke back mountain yet? hehe

PMJ

i no how you feel about the wbts but not many on here have got closer to God since they left.i mean look at the things you are accepting in your life.weather you tink its the truth or not i bet you were a more MORAL person

PMJ

CRUMPET i think the reason you thought i was woman was because most men like the thought of 2 women togther.but i dont i stand for whats right.i love the law of JEHOVAH

AuldSoul

PMJ, "moral" behavior does not make someone a "moral" person. If she was playing false to herself that is a form of immorality. It is called "hypocrisy." It is characterized by a lack of integrity. Most of us left because integrity matters to us. It has led to very divergent paths, but for the most part we value integrity very highly. I have noticed that in the months I've been posting here.

AuldSoul

lola28

Moral?

Are you for real? My god, how can you say that? A moral person would leave the Society the moment they realized all the crap that the Society has done, drawing closer to God has nothing to do with going to the meetings or out in service. You are either a moral person or you are not, handing out mags and preaching bs does not a moral person make.

lola

Crumpet

PMJ firstly I feel flattered that you consider my authority on a par with Jehovah as indicated by your capitalisation of both our names, but don't get carried away. I don't condone or authorise mass genocide under any circumstances - so you may be revering the wrong person here

As for your convoluted indication that I might think you are female because men fantasise about girls together - please stand corrected i fancied girls long before men and very long before I knew it was a fetish for some men. As for morality - I actually am a much more moral person than I was as a JW. I don't try to assassinate myself anymore and i think that is a great start.

if you are so hapy yourself why do you come here?

the seven year itch

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