Help!!

DaveNwisconsin

I think you made the best choice, I would cancel that meeting too and go on with your life. Dont look back!
rebel8

mamasbear, you may want to familiarize yourself with the (secret) elders manual b4 your meeting today, just so you know the real rules and aren't relying on the elders to give you accurate info. I believe it's units 4-5 that give the DFing rules. http://dbhome.dk/carlo/
slugga

you may want to familiarize yourself with the (secret) elders manual

Is it a secret?
I once had an Elder offer to lend me his elder book to prove a point...
I kinda get the impression that the whole "Elders Book is secret" is one of those dub urban legends (for want of a better term) Any Elders out there wanna back this up or refute it? Are R&F publishers allowed to read those books?
A Paduan

Tell them that you've been diagnosed with bipolar disorder and that you are not able to think clearly about anything at the moment.